If his was film doing this based on/inspired by his daughter's hair issues,
I don't think the film is based on or inspired by his daughter. The fact that his daughter asked why she doesn't have good hair made Chris Rock question women of why they so obsessed with their hair. He is already familiar with 'good' hair and 'bad' hair. He didn't need his daughter curiosity to enlighten him.
why shouldn't his wife be 1st and foremost in his mind?
I wouldn't know if his wife is or was 1st and foremost in his mind, and the film isn't about his wife per se. The film is about black women (in general) who are obsessed with weave and torture from chemical processess to get the 'good' hair look.
After all, she's the BW who's raising her and giving her these attitudes. (Nope, I don't buy that it was solely school that gave her these hangups).
Indirectly the mother did help the daughter by not wearing her hair natural and walking around with long straight hair. However, outside influence has a greater impact than what is inside the home. Even his Chris' wife did where her hair natural I still think his daughter still would have admire the long flowing tresses of her classmates and asked the same question.
Not to mention his role in why his daughter feels this way.
I don't know that but I can imagine certain vocabulary that is being used around his children that he and his wife may say unconsciously and it doesn't have to be the term "good hair."
The problem w/ the concept of this film is that he plays it like it's a woman's issue solely. It isn't.
I don't know but I do agree it is more of a black women issue and he interacts with black women and know more about black women than other racial groups, so I don't see the logic in him making a movie about white women and hair weaves especially when they don't wear them for the same reason black women wear them.
Ironically, back in the day..that long braid of Sade's hair was a weave.
I already knew that since I saw her natural hair and it comes a few inches below the shoulders. However, black people were fooled by it because the long hair matches her look, i.e, light skin with a cute button nose.
I'm not sure if this was mentioned in this thread, but I did read about how he didn't deal w/ his wife in terms of this film.
The way he explained it to Wendy is that his wife gets argumentative and she will win. He didn't say that verbatim but it sound like he was saying he don't even bother to talk about it to his wife anymore. If she wants to wear purple hair then he will just accept that. That is what I got from the Wendy Williams show. It seems like he and his wife did or use to talk about it and heated arguments came about it.
Why are strangers an issue, but his wife not? After all, she's raising their kids...along w/ him.
It is a movie or documentary so strangers are okay. What is better than to talk to random people and get their opinions or belief. He did use people who aren't strangers but are entertainers and we see them on the big screen or on television.