When a man is in to you, you can feel it in your bones. When he isn't, your brain will tell you the truth. Ignore what your heart says, follow your brain.
When someone plays the victim they become "lower value "to me ,I think if everyone screwed you over and dumped you you must not be a catch . That's why you shouldn't talk about it .
I've learned that the hard way once. Plus the guys will use that information against you later..so i learned to say it didn't end well and I wish him the best in life. That makes them more curious