FemmeFatale
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lets say for a few months and your birthday or a holiday (Christmas or Vday) came up and you got nothing (let's say no gift or card but a text) would you write him off? Why or why not?
FemmeFatale said:lets say for a few months and your birthday or a holiday (Christmas or Vday) came up and you got nothing (let's say no gift or card but a text) would you write him off? Why or why not?
InchHighPrivateEye said:It would be a dealbreaker for me because the fact that he doesn't care about my feelings OR how I look at him would be a problem. I wouldn't care what the present was--it could be a card--because it's not about that but I would be really personally insulted that he didn't care enough to even...pretend. Like, I would feel like he was either letting me know he doesn't care what I think about him or he was daring me to say something about it. And then I'd probably get mad that I had to be subjected to such awkwardness and go in on him
Why does it mean he doesn't care about your feelings?
lets say for a few months and your birthday or a holiday (Christmas or Vday) came up and you got nothing (let's say no gift or card but a text) would you write him off? Why or why not?
I'll be honest and admit that the guy would stay in the friend zone. There's no way I'd look at him romantically after that.