MissScarlett
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I know some women are, and quite frankly, I just don't get it or why.
My gf told me she regularly snoops in her dh's wallet, email, phone, etc. I was like
She told me recently that he went on a business trip and has been texting alot with a woman he apparently met several states away. So I'm like ok, did you confront him about it (I know what's to ask)
She said no, because she didn't want him to know that she was looking in his stuff and that when you confront a man about something that' you've found via snooping, they will go off about the snooping instead of addressing the issue (I do believe this) So, I said what are you gonna do? She said she keeps reading to see if its really incriminating stuff and to see if it's 'worth it' to end her marriage over. And she said , "well she lives out of town, no way he could see her again really"
WTF kind of thnking is that?! Thiis mind you, is a very intelligent woman, I was SHOCKED that's verbalized to me that's she basically playing herself so cheap.
So if you find something out about your man, do wait to confront to see if it's 'worth it' to end your relationship? And really explain this line of thnking to me.....why would you dismiss something, whether really small or not for the sake of being married? IF I found something, no matter how small it is, why give them another chance to get more brazen or rather, do more things.
Also, what man thinks that communication with a woman, regardless of not having a physical relationship is 'no big deal' Do men really think like this? I WISH I would find something in dh's stuff regarding another woman *mutters under breath* because if I did, it woudn't be no 'waiting' to confront to 'see how serious it is'
I think the electronic age will be/is the death of relationships...sigh...
My gf told me she regularly snoops in her dh's wallet, email, phone, etc. I was like
She told me recently that he went on a business trip and has been texting alot with a woman he apparently met several states away. So I'm like ok, did you confront him about it (I know what's to ask)
She said no, because she didn't want him to know that she was looking in his stuff and that when you confront a man about something that' you've found via snooping, they will go off about the snooping instead of addressing the issue (I do believe this) So, I said what are you gonna do? She said she keeps reading to see if its really incriminating stuff and to see if it's 'worth it' to end her marriage over. And she said , "well she lives out of town, no way he could see her again really"
WTF kind of thnking is that?! Thiis mind you, is a very intelligent woman, I was SHOCKED that's verbalized to me that's she basically playing herself so cheap.
So if you find something out about your man, do wait to confront to see if it's 'worth it' to end your relationship? And really explain this line of thnking to me.....why would you dismiss something, whether really small or not for the sake of being married? IF I found something, no matter how small it is, why give them another chance to get more brazen or rather, do more things.
Also, what man thinks that communication with a woman, regardless of not having a physical relationship is 'no big deal' Do men really think like this? I WISH I would find something in dh's stuff regarding another woman *mutters under breath* because if I did, it woudn't be no 'waiting' to confront to 'see how serious it is'
I think the electronic age will be/is the death of relationships...sigh...