Are We Obsessed?????

[happylocks]

Obsessed ? No

, Just very passsionate about our hair, and we should be,

, it is a part of our health and body, and something that we should,take good care of, ppl see it everyday and it is a part of beauty, life and health I think it is no different spending money on massages or doctor, or extra

, There is a limit, but hair care is important and that is the truth, Dont worry to much about ppl, but if you are going broke by the end of the month, having relationship problems due to your hair cost, then you are

, I see mine as a passion for success in the field of hair

 

[Faith]

I'm involved with my hair and it's needs. I'm finding though that as I streamline my product list and my regimen I'm focusing on hair less and less. When I couldn't get it to do what I wanted or couldn't get it softer I found I was more "obsessed". And I guess that's all right. I was looking for hair help and in retrospect I guess it isn't obsessing but seeking and searching....frantically

 

[Leshia]

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Tell the truth and shame the devil!

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[Paris Belle]

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You're right LL.

I sure am not obsessed. I am passionate about my hair. I am concerned about my hair. I am dedicated to my hair.

I LOVE my hair.

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DITTO!! Well-said!

I'm a PJ...But I'm a broke PJ...

That's what being on a college student budget will do to you...But just wait until I get a job!!!

Just today I bought a conditioner I wanted to try (Fantasia IC conditioner). While I was there I saw Pantene's Relaxed and Natural line and Creme of Nature's shampoo (I like my Aphogee, but I was thinking I should alternate with something)..AND I AM SOOH EXCITED!!! But I'm not obssessed---Just concerned and passionate...

 

[sassygirl125]

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left her 2 children in the car in the burning August heat and went into the beauty shop to have her hair done. She was in there 3 hours and when she came out, her children died of heat exhaustion.

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Whoa...
Maybe I'm not as obsessed as I thought... That b***h was crazy! I don't see how she can live with herself!?

 

[nita4]

I'm not obsessed, just informed and I love it!!!!

 

[OneShinyface]

The woman who left her kids in the car was from Detroit and was getting her hair done and a massage in a ritzy salon frequented by a list of who's who located in Southfield, a suburb of Detroit. Not to belabour the tragedy, but can you believe she was pregnant with a third baby at the time? She gave birth to him in January and earlier this month, the courts took him away - thank God.

Back on topic, right now, I am VERY obsessed with growing what I lost back in. I'm making progress, but when I think of how long it will take to grow the new hairs to the length of the rest of my hair, I get even MORE obsessed.

 

[Ginn1]

She's tallying up your purchases? Sounds like she's the one with the obsession. We just have an expensive time consuming hobby

 

[HoneyRockette]

I'm still in denial.

 

[Janice]

Well I wouldn't say obsessed but I am definalty motivated like even more, especially everytime I read something encouraging or see someone's progress pics. That gives me alot of inspiration. I don't take it to the extreme or let it take control of me.

I must admit I am a product junkie, but before I do get a product I read up on testimonials or reviews from this board (instead of those productss testimonials) and if more people have had good experiences then I tend to go get it, if I feel I need it.

But when you start seeing results you will know it is all worth it!

 

[Nessa]

I am heavily obbsesed more obseesed than anyone in this world. That is how bad it is.

 

[LuvableLady]

Thanks for the updated information OneShinyFace, that doesn't sound too good. I didn't think she was from Chicago but I couldn't remember exactly where this happened.

 

[Armyqt]

I know I'm obsessed, but getting alot better these days. IMO, all of the stuff some of us do aren't altogether necessasry for obtaining growth, but it is OH SO FUN to be hair obsessed

Hair is definitely my hobby

 

[Tara]

I'm obsessed, but in a different way. Now, I have my staple of products that seem to work for me, so I'm no longer product obsessed.

However, I am obsessed with growth again, and "health" and thickness of strands etc. So I tend to get scissor happy, which is counter productive to my goal, which is to allow my hair to do what it does....grow.

So because I am obsessed, and impatient, I've decided to put my hair back into protective custody from myself (LOL) -braids!!

With my hair in braids it's great because since I don't see my hair, I don't find myself analyzing every strand. Now I just moisturize and go on about my business.

So I guess I am an On-Off obsessor. LOL!

 

[Lucia]

NO not anymore, I was when I fisrt started on the board and had to get my hair healthy and the right regime of products and vitamins. Now I just kep up with the regime, and I only shop for hair stuff when I run out.

 

[adrienne0914]

YES!! i think i am obsessed. i don't mind it though. i can definitely think of worse things to obsess about... like drugs or something. so as long as it's not taking food outta my son's mouth or hurting anyone, i think it's okay.

 

[Momstar]

It's fun to see how long I can grow my hair. Hair is an expensive hobby but it's not as exspensive as some. For instance, pageantry runs into the thousands. Usually it's the parent paying to make the child a star.There is dresses, custom-made costumes($50-$700each),sponsor fees, traveling,hair and makeup artists, voice lessons and it goes on and on. So compared to pageantry a hair obsession is pretty cheap and more satisfying.

 

[ngaa]

i'm definatly obsessed and a pj who jus came out of denial recently!

i cant stop, i tell myself i wont go online or to the beauty shop but always manage to convince myself that i'll jus browse and b4 i kno it i've bought hair products

 

[L.A. Woman]

If it is an obsession, I see it as a healthy one. When I first discovered the board I was on it non-stop. In recent months, circumstances beyond my control (major battling concerning an inheritance - grrr) have steered me away. I don't get to the board as often as I'd like. When I do it's always a treat to pick up a tip here or read thoughtful opinions there ... So it not only eases my mind, but keeps my hair methods in check and keeps it growing rather than falling out from the stress I'm receiving from various sources.

There are so many perks with this particular obsession that I don't mind if someone else labels me as obsessed.

 

[Ennyaa]

We may all be obssessed but that chick is a jealous, rude

. I'd rather be hair obssessed.

Yeah I'm a PJ. AND?! Say somethin, I dare you!

 

[ngaa]

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Yeah I'm a PJ. AND?! Say somethin, I dare you!

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girl u're too funny!!

 

[Honi]

&lt;standing up in front of the LHCF&gt; Ahem! "My name is Honi and I'm obsessed with my hair. I spend a total of 4 hours a day (while working of course) looking for new posts about hair care products and reviews. I'm ashamed to tell my husband or my family about my obsession for fear they will laugh at me. Today during my lunch break I bought a bottle of jojoba oil and after work I'm going to Target to look for Pantene Smooth and Sleek. Oh! and if anyone has anything to say about it I'm kicking them in da back of dey neck!

" ahahah! Just kiddin!

 

[happylocks]

oh

, Today I went out, and I found myself looking at ppl hair, their length, style, how nice it was? or was not

, I give it too much time I think, I saw some nice hair, that I loved,but I was thinking about it too much, hair hair hair

everywhere I turned

what is wrong with me?

 

[Kaela]

I think its an safe obsession/hobby as long as it remains fun to you. If someone finds themselves having self-esteem issues, or constantly comparing themselves to others and hating their own hair I think thats when it becomes an unhealthy obsession. If the focus of your entire day becomes centered around your hair, thats too far, in my opinion. Although i haven't seen this behavior at this site, really, I have seen on other boards where ladies will break the bank, and hurt their stomach...maybe even their scalps trying everything possible to get their 'dream' hair.
As everyone said above, as long as your life priorities are in check, its wonderful to have beautiful hair on top of that

 

[mirrormirror]

I would say that my hair is important to me. Although I am not a product junkie, I dont by a product just because............I usually contemplate If I really need a product before buying it. I am extremely rational.

A must for me is buying every Black hair magazine that is on the stands every month, cause thats when they usually come out. I have tons of hair magazines.

 

[Trinity1]

I dont think I'm obsessed. I used to be back in April 2002 when I first started to become interested in healthier hair. I was trying to compile products that would aide in the health of my hair so that was an obsession. Now that I have my hair under control and feel confident in its health I find that I am not so obsessed. I do like washing and styling my hair. My hair has become more versatile now. I think I achieve a different hairstyle just about everyday. The longer it gets the easier it is to style it in a variety of updos and down hairstyles. I'm not sure how much further I have to go to get to bra strap length,I think maybe 3 inches or more but I'll be able to tell after my next relaxer. At any rate its fun watching my hair get longer and thicker and God willing it will keep on

Like the other ladies have been saying,I can think of worse things to be obsessed or passionate about. Its been said that a womans hair is her crowning glory,we are not the only ones that think hair is important.


Tee

 

[monawalker]

I don't think we are obessed, I think we just want really long and healthy hair. I think the only difference is that we are willing to put in all the extra effort and money to acheive this goal than lets say the average person would.

 

[pebbles]

HI Monawalker,

Welcome to the board!

 

[happylocks]

I still have not changes Hair is a big thing in my life, I think we should set a standard of LHCF on what is Normal for us and what is obsessive to others,

, I think it is normal to invest in the health of your hair, but there is going over the top, I just have not done it :sketer: