I have no problem with shrinkage. Shrinkage allows me to wear my hair in a variety of different styles. I see type 4 naturals wearing afros and puffs all the time, including at formal events and at work.
I do feel like it's normal to want to do something different to your hair for a formal event. Natural hair can definitely be elegant, that doesn't mean every natural style is appropriate for every setting.
There's also nothing wrong with stretching your hair, and even with stretched styles you will get shrinkage. My hair is TBL and my twist outs still shrink to shoulder length.
I don't wear shrunken puffs and afros because of tangles, but there's nothing wrong with the style. Bottom line, wear your hair however you want.
I do feel like it's normal to want to do something different to your hair for a formal event. Natural hair can definitely be elegant, that doesn't mean every natural style is appropriate for every setting.
There's also nothing wrong with stretching your hair, and even with stretched styles you will get shrinkage. My hair is TBL and my twist outs still shrink to shoulder length.
I don't wear shrunken puffs and afros because of tangles, but there's nothing wrong with the style. Bottom line, wear your hair however you want.
Her hair is pretty, but the style wasn't all that.

) and as a matter of fact wash day was immensely easier once I found gel-bae. My gelled coily-clumps were protected without the constant manipulation of the ends that comes from retwisting & shed hairs slid right out. I get more tangles from small twists; buns, wng, & roll/tuck/pin is where it’s at for my hair right now.