I probably would have in the past but aint no way in hell I would do so now.
and the crazy thing is I have had two different white police officers damn near stalk me online dating with multiple messages from multiple profiles. if any of yall are in my city yall must have had the same guy harass yall too because it was clearly just because im black. I asked him at least three times whether he remembered that hed messaged me before.
anyway im pretty sure I asked this question in ot before and generated a long thread, but searching on mobile isnt bringing it up for me. ill get back to you if I find it
found it
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/would-you-date-a-cop.734053/
I said cop not police![]()
no..how long has she been seeing him?
it sounds like she should have left him awhile ago.
men are weak. which is to say, as a whole, weaker than women, as a whole.I'm wondering....
Men seem to respond to peer pressure quite a bit I'm observing. Even the good guy, around the wrong kind of men will fall.
Just my observation.
the saying is Police Beat & Firefighters Cheat
I dated a Constable he was the type to send subliminal domineering messages. Like his business card on my front door. Talking about did you get the card I thought he meant a greeting card which i thought was crazy but the business card was even worse
BEECH I'M THE POLICE AND I CAN POP UP ON YOUR ARSE AT ANY TIME. YOU BET NOT HAVE NO NOTHER NINJAS OVER HERE.Um wtf? What was the business card even supposed to mean?
weeks?! Oh c'mon now. Im sure she's dumped men she dated longer for less offensive ish. I surely have. Shes got her red flag...She's been dating him for 3 weeks.
BEECH I'M THE POLICE AND I CAN POP UP ON YOUR ARSE AT ANY TIME. YOU BET NOT HAVE NO NOTHER NINJAS OVER HERE.
The crazy thing is I found out he was MARRIED!!!!! How you trying to put me on lockdown you you married
I said it before regarding cops. No.
Second in line are any type of psychotherapist. No.
weeks?! Oh c'mon now. Im sure she's dumped men she dated longer for less offensive ish. I surely have. Shes got her red flag...
Yep. I hear therapists are bat **** crazier than their patients! I dont need experience with that to find out.>>>>><<<<< Never ever again will I do that. They make you feel like any feelings you have are invalid and just always think their way is right. I stuck around for a looooooong time and after years of listening to textbook BS, I was out.
Family always stressed to never date a cop, plus I've never met one I was interested in.
A guy friend of mine was dating a cop. One night she was on duty, she saw him and another lady he was dating come out of a bar. She followed them back his house and told my friend if the other lady came out and got in her car she was arresting her and charging her with DUI. She sat posted up in front of his house (somehow) until her shift was over. Yikes right!
Just a first date and I knew right then it wouldn't work. First, he drove his car like a bat out of hell weaving in and out of traffic and stopping within inches of the bumper of the car in front of us. I couldn't breathe the whole ride to the movies.
I never told him where I lived because I'm paranoid like that. So I drove my car to his house and he drove his car to the date. So why did he call me a few days later telling me he thought he'd give me a call because he was driving by and saw my car outside? So obviously he ran my plates to find out where I lived and I knew right then I couldn't see anybody like that.
Then imagine when you break up and having to deal with them finding ways to harass you. No thanks!
I dated one back in the day. He was actually testing for SWAT a the time we started dated. Overall, he was kind and thoughtful but he wanted to rush our relationship into a place of comfort, trust and dependency before I felt comfortable. I had to get up out the situation I felt like he needed a therapist more than a woman.
lol I just faded to black on him which means he still texts me out of the blue and I forget I'm talking to someone I have no interest in and I have to replay the fade.I had a similar situation but this guy was a sheriff. He was trying too hard to rush the relationship to a place of familiarity and comfort (that is such a great way that you put that... I had a hard time articulating it) but I ran far and fast and ended up telling him that I had gotten back with my ex which was a lie.