Who would say such a thing, especially to someone's face?
Men think like this?
Men do this alllll the time.
Actually I think people do it. Attractive people can be very insecure. Fragile egos too. Well people are insecure but looks tend to give people's behavior away....
Men will go after a woman they know can't do better than him. Esp in the looks category. That's why you see cougars and fat chicks at male strip club. Men also know that these women are also insecure and go after outwardly attractive men because they have something to prove like they can get the hot guy. Then they'll stay with him and ready to beat a btch down over him. Think Denzel and Pauletta.
Actually when I see an attractive man with a plain Jane it makes sense to me. All I see is a likely cheating trfling man and a beaming plain Jane who thinks she finally landed a catch but really just looks like a security blanket....
i disagree.
i find that truly attractive people do not care that much about looks. thats how really good looking people can even date an unattractive person.
its only people who desperately want to be thought of by others as attractive that put all this emphasis on every single little thing having to do with convincing people they are attractive. people who are the most insecure about their looks are actually the people that should be insecure about their looks, and it is total nonsense to me the idea that attractive people are insecure about their looks. they're not. like, basically ever.
but ive been saying this all year now on this forum and people still dont get it (ie halle berry attractive) so
I disagree.
Been around way to many models, trophy wives and the like to agtre with this.
My father, f and father and uncle were more attractive than their wives. I wouldn't call them trife or anything but always felt like they picked women they knew they'd never have to worry about. No man was going to go after their woman that looked better than them. I think t sir a allowed them not to have to out in much effort to keep the women compared to what other men have to do to keep their woman happy.
no offense but your opinion on this subject holds zero weight with me
Neither does yours to me.
I def expected you to be in this thread for a myriad of reasons. So for you, of course your perspective makes sense.
I agree that attractive secure people don't give a crap about looks for a variety for reasons.
I agree that attractive people who only have the "attractive card" to play and are otherwise insecure give a lot of a crap about looks. They have to.
I agree that attractive secure people don't give a crap about looks for a variety for reasons.
I agree that attractive people who only have the "attractive card" to play and are otherwise insecure give a lot of a crap about looks. They have to.
I realize that I used to purposely date people who were unattractive and way below me on the scale. I no longer care about looks so its a null and void thing for me now. I heard comments all the time, and I still think the people who make them area ultra flat as far as judgement and self awareness. There are tooooooo many variables in a relationship to take one look at the occupants of that relationship and make a judgement regarding who made out better. You would be very surprised.
Men do this alllll the time.
Actually I think people do it. Attractive people can be very insecure. Fragile egos too. Well people are insecure but looks tend to give people's behavior away....
Men will go after a woman they know can't do better than him. Esp in the looks category. That's why you see cougars and fat chicks at male strip club. Men also know that these women are also insecure and go after outwardly attractive men because they have something to prove like they can get the hot guy. Then they'll stay with him and ready to beat a btch down over him. Think Denzel and Pauletta.
Actually when I see an attractive man with a plain Jane it makes sense to me. All I see is a likely cheating trfling man and a beaming plain Jane who thinks she finally landed a catch but really just looks like a security blanket....