bluewater01
New Member
I know I posted the other day about this very topic, but I just had to post what just happened.
My mom's college friend of over 45 years called when she received her invitation and asked if her "boyfriend" could be invited. When my mother told her no, she said that she would pay for his ticket. Then she added that if he couldn't come then she would not be coming either. My mother was so hurt by this. She couldn't believe that her friend put her in this awkward position. Then to top it off, my mom doesn't even like her boyfriend.
My mother is considering inviting him anyway because she doesn't want to lose her lifelong friendship, but I question her friend. I mean how can she even threaten not to come? That is beyond rude to me, but mean and selfish.
I heard the other day that weddings bring out the worst in people and I am really finding how true that is.
My mom's college friend of over 45 years called when she received her invitation and asked if her "boyfriend" could be invited. When my mother told her no, she said that she would pay for his ticket. Then she added that if he couldn't come then she would not be coming either. My mother was so hurt by this. She couldn't believe that her friend put her in this awkward position. Then to top it off, my mom doesn't even like her boyfriend.
My mother is considering inviting him anyway because she doesn't want to lose her lifelong friendship, but I question her friend. I mean how can she even threaten not to come? That is beyond rude to me, but mean and selfish.
I heard the other day that weddings bring out the worst in people and I am really finding how true that is.