Candy1978
New Member
Ok here is the long story short. I am currently training and dieting for a fitness competition in June. June 18th & 19th to be exact. My 1 year wedding is in May and my husband wants to take a 10 day cruise that #1 we really can't afford, but more than that would empede on the fitness goals that he knows are so important to me to accomplish this year. I suggested that we go to a nice resort spa for 1 or 2 days, or a nice resturant the night of our anniversery, and do the crusie after the competition. He says that I'm being selfish, and putting the competition before our marriage and anniversery. Am I being selfish? I mean when I go on the cruise I don't want to be thinking about calories???