Glib Gurl
Well-Known Member
...and what is wrong with being selfish?!.......
I dunno about what type of relationship you and your brother have but there is an underlying tone to his advice cause usually when anyone has a negative thing to say to you there is a disliking of you.
My brother and I have an okay relationship . . . I was (am? ) the favorite child and so there is some resentment there . . . he always brings up things that I got that he didn't from our parents (e.g., I went to private school, he went to public - but that's because he had a learning disability and could only get services through the PS system . . . they couldn't afford for him to get it while attending private school)
Before I would even consider a man's advice about my relationships - I ask myself - Is this man the kind of man that I would want to date?
Would I want to date my brother? Not really. And it's not even because he's a bad guy because he's not . . . it's just that he's . . . well, SELFISH Seriously, he is just like my dad and with them it's always about what THEY want . . . how THEY feel . . . . While they can be a lot of fun and very loving, they can also be very moody, very bossy dudes