SVT
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What? Girl, hush! lol
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What? Girl, hush! lol
kmn1980
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*CherryPie*
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She's been with him for 20 years, and not married yet?!? I don't even know what to say about that.
erplexed 
She's doing a whole lot for a man who hasn't even married her!
It doesn't matter if he's my husband or boyfriend, he is gonna hear the word NO from time to time.
erplexed She's doing a whole lot for a man who hasn't even married her!
It doesn't matter if he's my husband or boyfriend, he is gonna hear the word NO from time to time.
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They are married. About 18 or so years now.
She's been with him for 20 years, and not married yet?!? I don't even know what to say about that.
She's doing a whole lot for a man who hasn't even married her!
It doesn't matter if he's my husband or boyfriend, he is gonna hear the word NO from time to time.
*CherryPie*
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In your opening post, you called him her SO.
But in any case, my opinion applies to husbands too. Husbands are not exempt from hearing the word no.
But in any case, my opinion applies to husbands too. Husbands are not exempt from hearing the word no.
I thought so called other could be applied to husbands as well as long term partner? I changed it.
In your opening post, you called him her SO.
But in any case, my opinion applies to husbands too. Husbands are not exempt from hearing the word no.
I was just thinking that if one was with an addict it would become extremely tiring and distressing if you never said no. I guess it is easier to have the never-say-no attitude if one has a DH/SO who is considerate and who has a "normal" appetite.
A lady at work was telling me that her friend was at her wits end because of the appetite of her DH. He did not even give her enough time to recuperate and heal after childbirth
A lady at work was telling me that her friend was at her wits end because of the appetite of her DH. He did not even give her enough time to recuperate and heal after childbirth
MD_Lady
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But that isn't about having a high drive, that's about being a selfish, inconsiderate jerk. Loving sex is great, valuing your own orgasm more than your spouse's physical or emotional comfort is not.I was just thinking that if one was with an addict it would become extremely tiring and distressing if you never said no. I guess it is easier to have the never-say-no attitude if one has a DH/SO who is considerate and who has a "normal" appetite.
A lady at work was telling me that her friend was at her wits end because of the appetite of her DH. He did not even give her enough time to recuperate and heal after childbirth
kblc06
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I tried that **** in an attempt to save my marriage. Yeah. Not so much fun, and it made the situation worse, for me. I'm not into giving someone else control over my body - and removing the option to say no puts the control in his hands.
JustKiya -You and your DH have split up
?! When did this happenI remember that thread.
This is us. Even if one of us is in the mood and we see that the other person is whatever we know to back down.
I agree with this.
Let that work for you. "Honey if we can get this, that and that done maybe I'll give you a little bit."
She's been with him for 20 years, and not married yet?!? I don't even know what to say about that.
She's doing a whole lot for a man who hasn't even married her!
It doesn't matter if he's my husband or boyfriend, he is gonna hear the word NO from time to time.
THANK YOU. Sounds like my father and his NOW wife. They been together 22 years shacking up, and he just finally married her this January. Now if that ain't some bs, IDK what is. I will not accomodate a man who has yet to put a ring on it. Obviously, if he doesn't value me enough to commit, then I don't give a damn about his "needs."
KEWLKAT103
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I used to try and do it no matter what. Unless I was sick or something.
These days, I only do it when I want to. He denied me a couple of times, so I figured I would do the same if I ever did'nt feel like it.
These days, I only do it when I want to. He denied me a couple of times, so I figured I would do the same if I ever did'nt feel like it.
goldielocs
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We have worked out our rhythm so it's not really an issue. We have turned each other down, but I can remember that everytime there was something stressful going on.
ebonylocs
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That's the "Just Do It" school of thought for dealing with when women aren't in the mood for sex.
That's also the name of a book written by a couple to document what happened when the woman had the idea that they would have sex for 101 days.
[video]http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/25074318#25074318[/video]
It gave them greater intimacy, made them make each other their priority, etc, etc. But, yeah, couldn't be me.
That's also the name of a book written by a couple to document what happened when the woman had the idea that they would have sex for 101 days.
[video]http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/25074318#25074318[/video]
It gave them greater intimacy, made them make each other their priority, etc, etc. But, yeah, couldn't be me.
awhyley
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Does it get boring though? I mean does he expect sex every few days like clockwork?
miss stress
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I've tried saying no, and he just whines like a little beyotch and noone gets any sleep on those nights so I've learned to just graciously give in so we can move on with our lives. Just thinking abt is childishness in that area makes me wanna go upstairs and slap him now I swear!
JustKiya
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Early July..... *sigh* We're both amazing & awesome people - but we make utterly crappy partners for each other. We tried to be 'better' and what each other 'needed' for ten years - and we finally came to terms with the concept that it's just not gonna happen this lifetime. *shrug* It's rather amicable, with its occasional low points - but otherwise good.
Fab_Nikki
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If I am not in the mood, then I am not in the mood. Hubby definitely respects that. However, unless I am sick or dead tired, I am going to offer another stress reliever to him *giggle*. The same goes for him. I have a very high appetite and I HATE to be sexually frustrated at work the next day. LOL
goldielocs
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Does it get boring though? I mean does he expect sex every few days like clockwork?
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Theo
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this is what i was thinking. is it even possible to available all the time? i feel like if i agreed to something like that nothing would ever be accomplished
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