mona_cherie
Active Member
This is quite embarassing, but I'd like you all's opinions. Okay, here goes. I met this guy about a year ago. We really hit it off, the chemistry was awesome, but he was in a relationship where he had been dating a woman for two years. He claimed they were going through a break up. So I, being the naive little woman that I am believed him. Again, I really really liked him. Of course they never broke up. He cannot/will not pull away. The woman cooks, cleans, and basically let's him do whatever, and whatever he does, though she gets angry, she does not leave. They see each other once or twice a week. I think he has issues because he was married before and his ex cheated on him and left him. He's also in his forties, as is his "woman", and I'm in my twenties.
He has introduced me to all his friends, who love me, and he's introduced her to only a few of them. So, about three months after we met, and a night of probably too many cocktails, we were intimate. Afterwards we had an argument and didn't talk for a while. Within the past few months we became friends again, and just recently we saw each other again for the first time in about 6 months. Again we were intimate. So I talked to him a day or so after and he says to me, "You know, afterwards, I felt a little guilty."
I can't go into every minute detail, but that's about the gist of things. My question is, should I remain optimistic about this guy, or am I going right back into the same situation as before. This is probably a dumb post, but like I said I really really like him and I'm probably a little cloudy right now because of that.
He has introduced me to all his friends, who love me, and he's introduced her to only a few of them. So, about three months after we met, and a night of probably too many cocktails, we were intimate. Afterwards we had an argument and didn't talk for a while. Within the past few months we became friends again, and just recently we saw each other again for the first time in about 6 months. Again we were intimate. So I talked to him a day or so after and he says to me, "You know, afterwards, I felt a little guilty."
I can't go into every minute detail, but that's about the gist of things. My question is, should I remain optimistic about this guy, or am I going right back into the same situation as before. This is probably a dumb post, but like I said I really really like him and I'm probably a little cloudy right now because of that.