awhyley
Well-Known Member
I'll add an over identification with the status of virgin to the long list of possible issues. Some women get really attached to the notion of being pure and untouched and it becomes core to their identity. She might be one of those women because It's odd to me that she would share this problem with so many people....unless on some level it's something she's proud of.
Even though I can see this being a problem, its really strange because after the wedding, what do these women think would happen? Did they think that they would be 'trollops' even though they were married women? If this is how OP's friend is viewing herself, then she's never going to have true companionship.