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I usually never ask for advice about a boyfriend, but I really need it. I could tell you all sorts of things about my boyfriend (well ex-boyfriend because we broke up about 2 hours ago), that would make you not like him. It might feed into the stereotypes in the other thread because he's Jamaican and he just had a baby with his ex which he told me about 3 months into our relationship and literally days before the baby was born, oh and there is so much more. But was bothered me was that I keep catching him staring at other girls when he's with me. Is this suppose to happen? He claims that he looks at everyone, but that's not what I see. I see him looking at any girl that looks less than 30 (he told me he likes younger girls too). He yelled at me today when I told him, and he said I have problems and issues etc. And he swore and became very disrespectful saying something about ask my mom and to look up jealousy and insecure in the dictionary. At this point I said bye, he did also and he hung up. Does me not liking him looking at other girls make me insecure? He went off about it, how I'm crazy because he looks at everyone. But I swear last week he checked out like 6 girls in total, and no men. Am I jealous/insecure/wrong?