Been going out with this guy for a couple of weeks. We went out twice this weekend: Friday night we went to dinner and had a great time, talking and laughing. Went to his house later and played several games of pool...just good wholesome fun. Sunday, he invites me to a party he's taking his daughter to. She's 9 years old and the party is "supposedly" for a girl that his daughter performs with(they are involved in dance). We get to the party and it is not what was presented. Turns out, the adults at the party are all peers of his ex-wife...they all belong to the local black bar assoc. Also, his daughter and the guest of honor are not members of the same dance group...the little girl is only 3 years old. This all came to light when he decided to point out the guy his ex left him for. I was heated and feeling like how dare he insert me in this mess. As it turned out, I knew some folks there and the hostess was super hospitable. I wasn't uncomfortable at all but peeped his game and questioned his motives. I'm ready to peace him out and fade him from my phone, fb and everything. To me, it was sneaky. Am I trippin' or was he?