I'm 32 and I just cut things off with a 45 year old man (46 next month), never married, no kids. I gave it chance even though I had my questions as to why he was still single. I found him to be afraid of intimacy (openness) and emotionally immature. I can't even say we actually "dated". We kinda just hung out for 9 months (no sex or anything). He never even told me he liked me until we had been hanging out for 6 months or so....his best friend was the first to tell me
. I like my men a bit more assertive. I cut things off because of the lack of intimacy and my feeling that maybe he just wasn't that into me. When I told him this he said he was really into me, but I made him work too hard....Negro please! You could even tell me you liked me!! I did like him, though, and wish things could have been different. I'm just not that patient. I need a man that says what he means and means what he says...chop, chop! He's I great guy who wants the wife and kids in the near future and I wish him the best...