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LivingDol1
Has he responded back to your email yet?
Has he responded back to your email yet?
Ugh. See, it's questions like yours that make me second guess.
He asked me if I'd write him. Obviously meaning he'd plan to read and respond. He said he would try to write me but I think it's a bit demanding on my part to expect him to email me while on vacation. When I'm on vacay in another country where my phone doesn't work and I don't have regular access to wifi, I'm not checking my email on a daily basis!
Dag nabbit, why don't Catholics and Christians get any free coed trips? Because we think premarital ex is a sin?? Such a crapshoot.
Ugh. See, it's questions like yours that make me second guess.
He asked me if I'd write him. Obviously meaning he'd plan to read and respond. He said he would try to write me but I think it's a bit demanding on my part to expect him to email me while on vacation. When I'm on vacay in another country where my phone doesn't work and I don't have regular access to wifi, I'm not checking my email on a daily basis!
So, I did what I was asked. I wasn't even sweet. I don't want to seem disinterested like previous posters said. If he's into me, he'll make contact. If he doesn't, therein lies the answer.
This isn't supposed to be a test.
Ugh, now I'm googling birthright trips and now thinking he could be in a drunken orgy or meeting the Jew of his dreams. I'm thinking I'm just going to write it off altogether. Putting it to bed for real!
Dag nabbit, why don't Catholics and Christians get any free coed trips? Because we think premarital ex is a sin?? Such a crapshoot.
Wait a second...just what kind of "vacation" is this??
Maybe you should have mentioned this at the beginning of the thread. What the ______?A rabbi will sit you down on the trip and tell you that if you are dating a non jew, you need to go home and dump them b/c it is so important to carry on the Jew line.
LivingDol1, aww I can somewhat relate. I find it suspiciously interesting that the Jewish guy I have gone out with a few times hasn't brought up religion. Albeit, it's early... But he knows he's Jewish and he knows I'm not, so... Shouldn't he make a comment about it?? I have no idea whether he's a liberal or conservative Jew. I question whether not talking about this topic means a lack of seriousness. Yo no se. Only talk of religion we have had is when he asked me about discipline methods at Catholic schools, after a comment I made.
I digress. My Jewish roommate has told me of te insane partying that goes on on those trips. However, I am still hoping that this guy writes you before he returns... Seems like you two had a really nice thing going, by your posts
Maybe you should have mentioned this at the beginning of the thread. What the ______?
LivingDol1 said:He emailed me this morning. I think I'm ok for now.
birthright trips are free vacations for 18-26 year olds who are full Jewish or have one Jewish parent. Basically, you go on this 10 day trip and you learn about your history, heritage, and link up with Irsaeli soldiers and form bonds with people who share your religion. there is also a lot of PARTYING. which the rabbis and group leaders encourage. A rabbi will sit you down on the trip and tell you that if you are dating a non jew, you need to go home and dump them b/c it is so important to carry on the Jew line.
i would imagine that coming back from a trip like that, you have a mega vacation high. combined with religion, who knows what.
So my fear is that he comes back and tells me he doesn't want to see me anymore b/c he wants to date and marry a jew.
I'm Catholic, and I've been on religious retreats before but they don't encourage marrying within the religion like the sneaky Jews do.
The guy I have been seeing has told me that his parents are very liberal about religion. But Judaism has way more cultural ties than any other religion.
So I want to meet other guys. I can't take him seriously, as much as I really like him. I need to cut off my feelings or project them onto someone else. I just need to keep going out and meeting guys. I refuse to let my feelings take over. Plus, I am older so... I'm looking for marriage. I can't just date for fun. I mean, I could date for fun but I don't want to. My emotions get too wrapped up. I can't separate the 2.
Wait...how you not gonna tell us what he said?! Lmao
LivingDol1
Oh wow...Okaaaaay...I didn't know about all of this!
Okay, NOW that you explain further, I totally understand why you're feeling a little apprehensive about his trip.
Well...the best thing you can do is just try to enjoy the ride and see how things go! I think you're doing great so far in giving him SPACE and letting him make up his own mind. He should know that you're interested in him, but he shouldnt' feel like you're insecure or smothering him.
So, keep up the good work, and just CHILL!!!! Whatever happens...is GONNA happen, regardless of if you worry about it or not. It's better to NOT worry and just be chill.
"amazeballs" I like that.
And um, YAY! for the email, again! Sounds like he was detailed and whatnot.
LivingDol1, this is looking GOOD from my experience with long trips with someone you've just recently started dating... I'm talking about 3+ weeks apart. Hope this is a case where the absence makes the heart grow extra fond
Aww so cute. Lol @ the text msg... witty girls are awesome lol
I don't like requests like this from guys. Why can't he just initiate a quirky text then wait for a witty response from you? I think your text will be cute and sufficient but I still wish he just would have taken the reins on that.