No Fakers
Faking a hand-off in football is a skill that can greatly help a quarterback. If he performs a good fake, he fools the defense and buys space and time to complete a pass downfield, so being a good faker is a desired quality for a quarterback. Not so much for a man who desires to be godly.
Although there’s something in most of us that rises up when we encounter a fake, if we are totally honest, many men are faking it. However, most men are not faking it to deceive; they’re faking it to conceal. They are afraid to be true and honest. They are afraid if they let people in, then they’ll be found out to be less than they portray themselves to be, so the fear of not measuring up drives the man’s heart to pretend he’s got it together.
Sometimes we even think we can fool God, that we can fake Him out with our right words and right actions. But God is not fooled. He sees into the inmost part of your heart. He knows all your fears, flaws, and failures. He knows that in your own power you’re never going to live up to what He desires for you to be. You’re never going to live up to what your wife, family, and friends need you to be. If that’s the case, then what do you do?
We all must realize that it is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that we will be the man or the woman that God wants us to be.
So, men, quit trying so hard to do this manhood thing in your own power. Understand this is not a call to be passive. We don’t sit around on the couch until the Spirit shows up and moves us off it. Instead, we release control of our lives to the lordship of Christ and allow the Spirit to strengthen us, guide us, and empower us as we walk in this world as husbands, fathers, men.
Prayers
Men: Take a moment and be totally honest with the Lord. Confess your attempts to fool God and conceal what's really going on in your heart. Submit yourself to Him and ask the Holy Spirit to empower you and lead you to be the man God desires for you to be.
Women: Pray that the man in your life will have the courage to be honest before God. Ask the Lord to give you wisdom on how to encourage your man to totally trust in the Lord.