That's the worse. Dating is so discouraging it takes a lot of courage to leave a "good man." I like to equate it to a sports team always being in the mix to win the championship but can never win it in the end. You start to think should I drop the head coach for the unknown (and possibly win a championship or lose) or keep what I have because it is better to have consistency.Why are we both willing to stay in this relationship that is obviously good for neither of us? I mean, I know why but I wish one of us had the courage/balls/decency to end it.
We had a super / awesome weekend. We got to see each other Friday, Saturday and Sunday (even though he worked on Saturday). I'm still sitting here with a big ole smile on my face.
He knows I'm a couponer, and he got to see me in action on today. He was amazed (especially since I had a coupon for everything).
Kimbosheartyay! I love that you are so happy in your relationship.
We had the best weekend too. We just huddled up in the house like old times but better. He is such a good guy. I am so thankful for this experience. There is so much hope out there.
I am getting to see him more and more and I am getting used to it. Even though I worked all this weekend he made it a point to see me at least once a day. He even surprised me and brought me my favorite Starbucks coffee up to my job super early in the morning. I love that he sends me random texts letting me know he is thinking about me. He even was watching football and made me a video message saying he was missing me. We stayed up late last night just talking and cuddling, I love the way he looks at me. I was talking randomly and he had this look in his eyes and was smiling and I paused and said "what" and he replied "I just love you so much baby" as he was rubbing the side of my face :luv2:
That's the worse. Dating is so discouraging it takes a lot of courage to leave a "good man." I like to equate it to a sports team always being in the mix to win the championship but can never win it in the end. You start to think should I drop the head coach for the unknown (and possibly win a championship or lose) or keep what I have because it is better to have consistency.
He is planning me a Birthday in Vegas next month! Ahhh this is going to be so much fun! 3 days with just me and him and VEGAS!!!
Yes indeed.We had a great talk. And though its early in our relationship we both agreed its very comforting to have a relationship with a plan for once. Getting to know each other and purposely and with intent to nake ourselves vulnerable and be conscious that that is precisely what we are doing so the other is careful to not hurt the other as we do.
Our plan, of course, if we are still good to go like this in a year, well.... its nice to have the end game not be a mystery or unspoken secret. Amen. We are both over 40 and that ish is way overrated.