He says I don't initiate and we haven't been intimate in too long blah blah blah and wondering if we're missing the spark...well how am I suppose to send signals when what he seems to prefer is watching a movie, playing with his motorcycle or doing different things around the house. How do I get IN when he seems so disconnected? He doesn't want to feel rejected but I don't either. How do I encourage him to be secure in initiating what he wants? Just ASK dumb dumb!!!!!!
He bought two crockpots and its just the biggest thing in our life right now. Lol. I love it. I remember dating guys and being turned off by how irresponsible and frivolous and just little boyish they were. This dude is sitting in his house at ten with a roast in the crockpot to take for lunch for the week. That's something my daddy would say "I want a roast." Lol. I just love it. There was chicken soup in the other crockpot when I left who uses two crock pots at once? I love it.
Ride it like a surf board....
I have been living with my SO for a little over a month. I am adjusting quite well considering this is a new area and job. The people are different and definitely the weather. I haven't seen this much snow in my life smh and according to my twin who grew up in Pittsburgh, what I'm seeing is nothing. I'm not use to single digit weather.
I am glad I took the chance of moving to be with my pooh boo. He is so kind and attentive. He wants nothing but the best for us. I appreciate Sundays bc that is our time together. We normally have a day long date. This past Sunday we were suppose to go to "church". It really is not church though. It's a place where we talk about spirituality, health and wellness, etc. We have gone before and enjoyed it. I really Iove speaking to the elders. They always drop knowledge. It was canceled this past Sunday bc of ice. But we were still able to speak to an elder that my SO has become friends with. I notice my SO are always drawn to elders and I am too. She was suppose to come with us to the service but she ended up talking with us a few hours. It was good and needed. My baby and I then went to the mall and finished the evening at Barnes and noble. We got more books and I got tarot cards.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
If you don't mind sharing, what are some of the factors you considered before deciding to move in with your SO? I remember reading a few posts where you were debating whether to get your own apt or not. My SO has been suggesting we move in together and while for a long time I thought I'd want to wait until being engaged, I'm not so sure anymore. We've discussed the future and I feel like we both have the same idea of where our relationship is headed.