2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

AHeadOfCoils said:
You know what?! I didn't think of that. :think: That's a great idea. I have a rough neck in my little black book that always breaks my back. :yawn: Maybe I will let him get another chance. My mom said that it might have been nervousness too like @FelaShrine said.

As long as we aren't official, it isn't cheating. :drunk:

I was so devastated this morning. I just kept :nono:. He could tell that I was disappointed.
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zoinks!!!! He likely deals with this all the time. That isn't your fault and really it isn't his either.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
zoinks!!!! He likely deals with this all the time. That isn't your fault and really it isn't his either.
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It's really not.

I usually try to at least see it before I get into a seriously dating situation, but we were talking long distance (He was in Phoenix and I'm in LA) for a like 4 months . & he moved here to Los Angeles a few months ago and we started going on dates and doing things at least twice a week.

I won't let that happen again. :nono:
 
Man. We've been dating for 4 months now. Time for us to either move forward together, or go our separate ways and remain friends.

Excuse the typos but i'm on my iPod touch
 
The guy I've been casually talking to for a few weeks FINALLY asked me out....but I have to work! UGH!!! :-( Well, if he's really interested he'll ask again. *sigh* I hate work.
 
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Best coloring I every had was with a small crayon. Didn't know what real coloring was until this crayon. This crayon had me drawing allllll sorts of pics I never thought I would draw. Still waiting for a crayon with the same talent.....sigh!
 
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Wine & chocolate. Wine & chocolate. I should give myself a manicure while I think of the outfits I'll wear this week.

Maybe I will meet someone new since the weather will be a bit better. I need new 'applicants'.

Divorcee sent a really dumb text. He's on vacation this week, and was already on the bottom of the pile. I won't be responding.
 
This weekend I realized that he is my rock. My entire condo flooded due to the water pump on my washer. He dropped everything to come and rescue my son and me. He vacuumed water, talked to the technicians for me, took all of my soaked clothes to his house, and also took my son with him so that I could deal with the mess and get my son away from the chaos.

By the time I finished with the technicians...they extracted the water, it was 12:30 a.m. Made it to his house. Not only did he wait up for me but he had washed and dried all of my clothes that got caught up in the chaos. My baby was sound asleep and tucked in his daughter's bedroom and sleeping peacefully.

So the washer is gone, but he assured me that he would replace it for me in a few days. I never even asked him to replace it for me. I don't even have to take days away from work. He's going to come over and deal with the contractors for me.....hardwood and carpet have to be replaced. I tell ya, it has been a hot mess. But he calmed all of my worries, fears, and stress. I love him. There is sooooo much more but I've said enough. I thank God for placing him in my path.
 
Things have suddenly started going well with the communication side of things (In terms of talking out difficult subjects/issues without it going wrong) :confused: Tis funny how a small side of your relationship can seem so impossible, but with the right changes on both sides things can improve.

Still going to see a relationship therapist soon to air any remaining issues out/seek advice for the future. Feel good that we have already part sorted this out.
 
So, I have officially decided to give him another chance. He's genuinely interested beyond that night and I shouldn't give up on him for his poor performance. Maybe he will surprise me, if it ever happens again.
 
Where has everyone gone :look:

Anyhow, things are going well. Anniversary next week and not sure what to do for it. This must be the first time I've really given a damn about this type of thing:lol:
 
One week until I meet his family. Well, his mom and other sister at least. Where did November go? IDK what to wear or bring to their house.
 
the holidays usually bring about changes for some relationships--its like ppl show their true colors aorund certain times of the yr---but ppl are still in da building i also think others dont wanna comment because they feel judged... one day their rlp is going great the next day ish hit the fan so revealing that on lhcf can be dicey

i dont know what it is about the holidays and the change of seasons but rlps go through changes as well...whether your married or single or dating rlp go through changes

married or single or dating the new yr should bring about some type of reflection on your relationship...

all i will say is dont bring a man who is not treating you right into your 2013-----and if SO/DH is amazing cherish that :)

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Vanthie said:
Where has everyone gone :look:

Anyhow, things are going well. Anniversary next week and not sure what to do for it. This must be the first time I've really given a damn about this type of thing:lol:
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My SO asked me how was I going to get my paper done when he will want all of my attention when as soon as he gets home today. I just laughed and said so I guess you are just going to cut to the chase, no pouting on the couch while I sit with my laptop.
 
Our vacation is almost here. We are all very excited. During our time we are going zip lining and horseback riding. Also I will attempt snowboarding at some point. Can't wait until Wednesday.
 
perfect28 said:
the holidays usually bring about changes for some relationships--its like ppl show their true colors aorund certain times of the yr---but ppl are still in da building i also think others dont wanna comment because they feel judged... one day their rlp is going great the next day ish hit the fan so revealing that on lhcf can be dicey

i dont know what it is about the holidays and the change of seasons but rlps go through changes as well...whether your married or single or dating rlp go through changes

married or single or dating the new yr should bring about some type of reflection on your relationship...

all i will say is dont bring a man who is not treating you right into your 2013-----and if SO/DH is amazing cherish that :)

tis all
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Excellent post. "Don't bring a man who is NOT treating you right in 2013"....
 
He wanted to take care of me after surgery and I agreed. He spent the night with me at the hospital. He lowered his bed to make it easier for me to get in and out of.

I don't know what the future holds for us but I am very appreciative for the right now.
 
deltadreamland said:
This weekend I realized that he is my rock. My entire condo flooded due to the water pump on my washer. He dropped everything to come and rescue my son and me. He vacuumed water, talked to the technicians for me, took all of my soaked clothes to his house, and also took my son with him so that I could deal with the mess and get my son away from the chaos.

By the time I finished with the technicians...they extracted the water, it was 12:30 a.m. Made it to his house. Not only did he wait up for me but he had washed and dried all of my clothes that got caught up in the chaos. My baby was sound asleep and tucked in his daughter's bedroom and sleeping peacefully.

So the washer is gone, but he assured me that he would replace it for me in a few days. I never even asked him to replace it for me. I don't even have to take days away from work. He's going to come over and deal with the contractors for me.....hardwood and carpet have to be replaced. I tell ya, it has been a hot mess. But he calmed all of my worries, fears, and stress. I love him. There is sooooo much more but I've said enough. I thank God for placing him in my path.
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i love it! he took care of business!
 
VeryBecoming said:
One week until I meet his family. Well, his mom and other sister at least. Where did November go? IDK what to wear or bring to their house.
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i have a brother, so be on point whatever you do. :lol: i would bring a dessert. i will be going over my SO's cousin's house too. i have met most of his family, but i know all eyes will be on me this time around. we are expecting, so i have to make sure i don't look like a big pregnant slob. also, i'm bringing my kids with me, so this will be their first time meeting everyone. i hope the behave! :lol:
 
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