2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

So ummm yeah, today I had the perfect opportunity to engage him but my shy self blew it...real bad. We were standing there...together...all alone...ready to clock out and all I'm doing is staring at the damn clock like "I hope he says something", I didn't even dare to look at him:nono:.
 
He called me like "I have to tell you everything that happened today." Sidenote: I love when he starts a story off like "__________ happened this morning and I said I have to remember to tell InchHigh that." It makes me feel like we're besties. Hot besties that wanna freak. :look:

Anyway, he told me that he got a promotion and raise but didn't know how much the raise was yet but it came with a really nice office. And then he estimated how much the raise would be and was like "that's good, right? No, InchHigh, that's good." It was cute because he was saying it like....I can't explain it, but like he wanted my approval or something. That's fine with me, hell I was just happy that he called right away to let me know of the raise. Somebody trained him pretty well :look: And then he told me how a lawyer got knocked the *** out in court :look: :look: Whaaaaaaat? He said "I kept my cool, though. Your man did good, baby." Yay! Sometimes he makes me sick, sometimes he's really cute. I can deal with that I guess.

ETA: I wanted to tell him that I have had an epiphany (thanks in part to LHCF) and plan to quit my job by January. "Plan to quit" as in have a plan in place....although everytime somebody talks to me here I pretty much want to do it immediately :look: but I thought saying it after he mentioned his raise would be....awkward :look:
 
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Lucie said:
I keep remiscing over Florida. I discovered 2 things about him. He wastes soap and does not put the toilet seat back down. I saw the 30% left soap in the trash and we were in tears laughing at his reasons why it had to be thrown out. I miss listening to him talking to his mom on the phone. Those 2 are like a mom and son comedy show.

I can't believe he ran after a raccoon to take a pic. Fortunately Floridian raccoons are polite. A NY raccoon would have mollywhopped him. That dude makes my skin smile.
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Sounds like you had fun!!

Funny moment on our trip was I had come back to the room, we were lounging, noticed he showered got dressed, but he was extremely ashy. Didn't say anything until, he was getting ready to leave.
Umm babe you're not gonna put on any lotion?!
I did, I used ur blue stuff!
What blue stuff?!?(I know for a fact that I didn't bring any with be, jus Vaseline) show me...
He goes and get travel size bottle of hello hydration conditioner.
I busted out laughing, that's not lotion.
He had to go take another shower!
 
firecracker, I'm sorry hon. I cannot believe one chased you! I'd have thrown my bag at it! I had a pitbull chase me for 2 blocks once and I couldn't take the pressure of him being on my heels. So I stopped and started screaming and kicking the air. He stopped and looked at me like I had rabies and ran in the opposite direction yelping. I collapsed on the curb after he left from all the dang running my 7 year old legs had to do on the those neverending 2 blocks.

I almost forgot what the dang thing was because on the last day there I saw the same raccoon trying to open the trash can and I went to help it. I openned the hotel door and he bolted. That's when I got my senses back like why the heck were you trying to help a raccoon eat trash?!!!! My dude's raccoon-ratchetness is contagious.

On another note, he calls me every morning now to wish me a beautiful day slowly replacing Tamrin and me's AM getting-ready-for-work-convo. Buh bye girl! You're fired! I need to style my hair like a comb-over to make it official!
 
A856 said:
Sounds like you had fun!!

Funny moment on our trip was I had come back to the room, we were lounging, noticed he showered got dressed, but he was extremely ashy. Didn't say anything until, he was getting ready to leave.
Umm babe you're not gonna put on any lotion?!
I did, I used ur blue stuff!
What blue stuff?!?(I know for a fact that I didn't bring any with be, jus Vaseline) show me...
He goes and get travel size bottle of hello hydration conditioner.
I busted out laughing, that's not lotion.
He had to go take another shower!
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Oh em gee!!!! :lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:You had me slap my forehead at my desk and guffaw like a crazy maniac!!!!! That is hi-la-ri-ous!!!
 
Welp... it's 2012 and after 6 years, I am officially in a relationship. Everythings been good so far, even the during down times we are working through them together. The biggest issue for both of us is realizing we are not alone anymore and we have someone to share with. If anything, this is going to be interesting :yep:
 
we've spent the entire weekend together, monday and yesterday. im pooped. i have a few assignments to complete for school and i think some time apart wont hurt. i told him this and he completely understood. im in awe. he is soo different from the ones before. and its sad because i expect the worst and he gives me the opposite. i want to do something special for him in the near future..........
 
daydreem2876 said:
Welp... it's 2012 and after 6 years, I am officially in a relationship. Everythings been good so far, even the during down times we are working through them together. The biggest issue for both of us is realizing we are not alone anymore and we have someone to share with. If anything, this is going to be interesting :yep:
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Aw congrats. It seems like 2012 has been the year of relationship.
 
Maracujá said:
So ummm yeah, today I had the perfect opportunity to engage him but my shy self blew it...real bad. We were standing there...together...all alone...ready to clock out and all I'm doing is staring at the damn clock like "I hope he says something", I didn't even dare to look at him:nono:.
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You gotta find something quirky or interesting to say chica. You can do it, you can do it, you can do it!!!!
 
This is what me and twin keep texting to eachother. And for some odd reason it's cracking me up. I'm odd like that.
 

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Lucie said:
firecracker, I'm sorry hon. I cannot believe one chased you! I'd have thrown my bag at it! I had a pitbull chase me for 2 blocks once and I couldn't take the pressure of him being on my heels. So I stopped and started screaming and kicking the air. He stopped and looked at me like I had rabies and ran in the opposite direction yelping. I collapsed on the curb after he left from all the dang running my 7 year old legs had to do on the those neverending 2 blocks.

I almost forgot what the dang thing was because on the last day there I saw the same raccoon trying to open the trash can and I went to help it. I openned the hotel door and he bolted. That's when I got my senses back like why the heck were you trying to help a raccoon eat trash?!!!! My dude's raccoon-ratchetness is contagious.

On another note, he calls me every morning now to wish me a beautiful day slowly replacing Tamrin and me's AM getting-ready-for-work-convo. Buh bye girl! You're fired! I need to style my hair like a comb-over to make it official!
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Pssshuuuttt :rolleyes: now I can get some much needed sleep. This is what I get for hanging with folks with reglah 9 to 5's. There I thought I was doing you a service. Girl Beyyyyy:lol:
 
tinkat said:
This is what me and twin keep texting to eachother. And for some odd reason it's cracking me up. I'm odd like that.
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me and my bf do this with 'what'.

what?

what, what?

what do you mean what?

what do you mean what what?

what?

what, what?

:look:

we're lame.:lachen:
 
Oasis said:
me and my bf do this with 'what'.

what?

what, what?

what do you mean what?

what do you mean what what?

what?

what, what?

:look:

we're lame.:lachen:
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Lol that cute. Silly things like that crack me up. Its important to be silly, so things aren't ways so serious.
 
he adores me and it has me like !!! he really does dote on me, which probably doesn't help my ridiculously high self self esteem. lol. hugs/kisses/cuddling & telling me how beautiful/intelligent/sexy/etc i am. i know.

anyway we are >here< on so many things (goals, ambition, intelligence, interests, attitude towards finances, fitness, etc). plus i find him funny, sweet, sexy, etc.

gag-worthy:
for darts, we were playing for kisses. lol. if we got above a certain number, we earned a kiss from the other. my first time really playing so he set the bar low for me :look: :lachen:

last weekend, i would play a song & if he guessed the song or artist, i'd give him a quick kiss. if he guessed both, he'd get a "real kiss". lol. i forgot for one song that he got both right & he was like, "woah. what about my kiss? why do you think i'm even playing this game?" lol. to share my music course!

:spinning:
 
I have a babysitter and a date tonight! Sooo excited!

Him: Babe, if you wanna go out tonight, I can get my mom to watch B for us.

Me: Are you asking me out on a date?

Him: *blushes and smiles*

I wonder if he realizes just how much I have grown to love him.
 
Me and my dude have crossed the fart-frontier. Although, I have not done it he just lets them go and looks so pleased with himself after. When I had to "use" the bathroom when we were away, I told him I was going to the gift shop or gym, LOL. TMI, sorry. I will get there one day as I cannot keep up the charade forever.
 
Lucie said:
Me and my dude have crossed the fart-frontier. Although, I have not done it he just lets them go and looks so pleased with himself after. When I had to "use" the bathroom when we were away, I told him I was going to the gift shop or gym, LOL. TMI, sorry. I will get there one day as I cannot keep up the charade forever.
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:lachen:
This had me DYIN!
 
Yes. The fart frontier :sad:


Who knew this clean cut looking man could be so ratchet? :sad:

I remember the first time he even mentioned farts I thought it was funny. He left me at his house to go get some food and I thought "you're just going to leave my nosey self here with nothing to do? :look:" So when I mentioned it later: "why didn't you ask me to go with you?" He said "I had gas, okay!?" Then, he began going to the bathroom and it was funny because as soon as the door closed I could hear noise. I swear it was so loud I thought he was making sounds with his mouth to make me laugh. He wasn't :look: Now he just farts! I still can't. I don't know if I'll ever be able to. Unless, ya know, I can't help it :look:

We're both in comfortable territory there, though, because even though I can't do it front of him I've finally come to terms with admitting I'm a human being who has gas sometimes :look: One day I was like "look. If I ask you to leave really suddenly just do it. Just go. I may need privacy today :look: And don't manhandle me, either :sad:"
 
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I finally was able to upload the video for twin's birthday. He loved it and said he almost cried lol. He asked me if we were to be married by next summer would that be too soon. I said no bc honestly I said to myself many times that I wouldn't be surprised if we were engaged by the first part of next year and married by the end. Never thought I would feel that way with someone in this amount of time, but when it's right, it just feels right.
 
kismettt said:
how old are you tinkat? i haven't been keeping up, when/how did you two meet?
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I'm 27. I met him on pof in July. I was not active on the site and kept forgetting to deactivate my account. He sent me a message and we clicked so quickly. It caught me off guard. He came at a time that I feel was extremely synchronized. It seem like right when i let go and surrendered he messaged me. I look at my journal entries I have written in amazement. It almost was as if I wrote what I wanted it and happened. Some of the things were so specific! When we started communicating he was 12 hours away but I was moving coincidently closer. We are now six hours away. We are so much alike which is why I call him twin. It felt good to meet someone who loved books, healthy living, meditation, affirmations, etc etc as much as me. I felt like he was sent as a gift from god...seriously. And he expressed how much he loved me and wanted to commit to me on my birthday. I feel like I had to go through the tough times of 2011 to prepare for the greatness of now and the future. He came to me nine months after I told the universe that enough was enough. During those nine months I grew even more spiritually and learned to love and focus on myself even more. I am so thankful :yep:.
 
I'm mad angry for one of my colleagues. Perfect example of why you shouldn't mix business with pleasure...........
She is a plain jane white girl and very nice. We talk all the time.
He is about 15 years older than her, white guy, balding, very average looking and red faced.
He had been chasing her for months and she decided to go out with him in January. Wasn't her type but she went with it. The relationship picked up and they started talking about marriage.

I was sat with her in the kitchen yesterday and I asked her how things were in general. She asked, 'haven't you heard?'. I said no.

She went on to tell me she just found out ole red-faced dude has a live-in black girlfriend of 5 years and 4 kids by other women. I was floored. She said his excuses for why she couldn't go around to his place were epic. She found out because she sent him an email to his personal home one. the girlfriend replied. She wasn't mad but explained who she was. Clearly he has done this before.

Poor girl has to see him every day.
 
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