What would have happened had I not listened to You?
Thank You for the prompting of the Holy Spirit
I won't go back, can't go back, to the way it used to be before your presence came and changed me... oh I love this song! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fp6DO6qo5NI
luving me said:Do you think that God hears our silent prayers? The ones that we say in our minds? I usually whisper or speak my prayers but from time to time I say silent prayers in my head.
Yes He definitely does! I do it all the time
I am seeing a lot of single Christian women here and IRL waiting but painfully so.
The enemy wants us to cave into what we see around us:
- women getting into relationships, engaged, and married left and right.
- online and tv ads for dating sites, including Christian dating sites.
- much older single Christian women who were waiting but are now seemingly past child-bearing age.
- non-believing or "borderline" Christian women who are using their bodies (physical attributes, sex, etc.) to attract boyfriends, fiances, or husbands
And so, when we as single Christian women absorb all of that, we think time is running out and when will marriage come for us. And some of us feel tempted to use "worldly" tactics to move the hand of God the Father. Or some of us continue to wait but painfully or to the point that we stop believing that marriage will come.
I feel like we need to address this issue head-on somehow. I've had a couple of thoughts going through my head, but do not feel convicted to really say much on the issue. Someone on this board needs to address it though. Paging Shimmie, sidney, LucieLoo12, Laela, and/or others ... Maybe we can put this on the Prayer Line or maybe someone can garner the threads I've already seen addressing this issue into one MEGA thread (e.g., sidney's Adam Sleeping, Shimmie's post of men and cartwheels, LucieLoo12's testimonies of men in the church, etc.). I'm not sure.[/QUOT
I think that God waits on us to give things to him and let him bring it to pass. The more we bind things up the more we tie Gods hands. I think the point is to give Him control. I can only speak for myself but at this point I just want to walk this journey with the Lord with faith and expectation that he has good plans for me and will present them to me as he guides me. I just want to walk with him like Enoch and Noah, I know all the good stuff is coming. Individuals should do as they are led. Pray or do what should be done according to His will. Nothing wrong with praying for marriage, its wisdom, especially when done with the knowledge that it will come in its time...not when done to speed things up or force Gods hand or get super focused on it in lieu of other prayer concerns. When I shared Adam Is Sleeping, I felt like God was saying keep your eyes on me and I will bring it to pass, its the ADDED. God moves his spirit to lead people to share, I am sure people will continue to share good and edifying messages on marriage. It's wise. As for me, whether Adam is sleep or awake... I want to relish in the one called The Last Adam, and I plan to do this for life! Faith and Expectation ladies!
I think that God waits on us to give things to him and let him bring it to pass. The more we bind things up the more we tie Gods hands. I think the point is to give Him control. I can only speak for myself but at this point I just want to walk this journey with the Lord with faith and expectation that he has good plans for me and will present them to me as he guides me. I just want to walk with him like Enoch and Noah, I know all the good stuff is coming. Individuals should do as they are led. Pray or do what should be done according to His will. Nothing wrong with praying for marriage, its wisdom, especially when done with the knowledge that it will come in its time...not when done to speed things up or force Gods hand or get super focused on it in lieu of other prayer concerns. When I shared Adam Is Sleeping, I felt like God was saying keep your eyes on me and I will bring it to pass, its the ADDED. God moves his spirit to lead people to share, I am sure people will continue to share good and edifying messages on marriage. It's wise. As for me, whether Adam is sleep or awake... I want to relish in the one called The Last Adam, and I plan to do this for life! Faith and Expectation ladies!
I am seeing a lot of single Christian women here and IRL waiting but painfully so.
The enemy wants us to cave into what we see around us:
- women getting into relationships, engaged, and married left and right.
- online and tv ads for dating sites, including Christian dating sites.
- much older single Christian women who were waiting but are now seemingly past child-bearing age.
- non-believing or "borderline" Christian women who are using their bodies (physical attributes, sex, etc.) to attract boyfriends, fiances, or husbands
And so, when we as single Christian women absorb all of that, we think time is running out and when will marriage come for us. And some of us feel tempted to use "worldly" tactics to move the hand of God the Father. Or some of us continue to wait but painfully or to the point that we stop believing that marriage will come.
I feel like we need to address this issue head-on somehow. I've had a couple of thoughts going through my head, but do not feel convicted to really say much on the issue. Someone on this board needs to address it though. Paging Shimmie, sidney, LucieLoo12, Laela, and/or others ... Maybe we can put this on the Prayer Line or maybe someone can garner the threads I've already seen addressing this issue into one MEGA thread (e.g., sidney's Adam Sleeping, Shimmie's post of men and cartwheels, LucieLoo12's testimonies of men in the church, etc.). I'm not sure.[/QUOT
I think that God waits on us to give things to him and let him bring it to pass. The more we bind things up the more we tie Gods hands. I think the point is to give Him control. I can only speak for myself but at this point I just want to walk this journey with the Lord with faith and expectation that he has good plans for me and will present them to me as he guides me. I just want to walk with him like Enoch and Noah, I know all the good stuff is coming. Individuals should do as they are led. Pray or do what should be done according to His will. Nothing wrong with praying for marriage, its wisdom, especially when done with the knowledge that it will come in its time...not when done to speed things up or force Gods hand or get super focused on it in lieu of other prayer concerns. When I shared Adam Is Sleeping, I felt like God was saying keep your eyes on me and I will bring it to pass, its the ADDED. God moves his spirit to lead people to share, I am sure people will continue to share good and edifying messages on marriage. It's wise. As for me, whether Adam is sleep or awake... I want to relish in the one called The Last Adam, and I plan to do this for life! Faith and Expectation ladies!
This!
I was speaking to my godmother about this last week. I desire to marry a man of God, a man after God's own heart. I am not willing to compromise this desire, and I don't see the point or necessity to compromise. I am willing to wait on God and His timing. Yet I also have a desire to birth children, and I shared that with my godmother. She said to me, "it's o.k. to pray for marriage within God's timing, and it's also o.k. to ask God to do it in a time that's satisfying for you in His will." I thought it was a great way to honestly put your desires before God.
I am all for being VERY forthcoming with God about my desires, I am truly open with Him. I don't pretend that I am at the point where I want to wait another 20 years. Yet those are my desires, and I pray for His will to be done in my life despite my desires. More than any desire I have, I desire for His will. So while I share the desires of my heart with my Heavenly Father, I ask Him to give me the strength to submit to His will in all areas of my life.
I have cried so many tears, I cannot physically cry anymore. Lord please hold me and comfort me as only You can.......I love You Jesus.....I worship and adore You....Just want to tell You......Lord I love You more than ANYTHING........
This!
I was speaking to my godmother about this last week. I desire to marry a man of God, a man after God's own heart. I am not willing to compromise this desire, and I don't see the point or necessity to compromise. I am willing to wait on God and His timing. Yet I also have a desire to birth children, and I shared that with my godmother. She said to me, "it's o.k. to pray for marriage within God's timing, and it's also o.k. to ask God to do it in a time that's satisfying for you in His will." I thought it was a great way to honestly put your desires before God.
I am all for being VERY forthcoming with God about my desires, I am truly open with Him. I don't pretend that I am at the point where I want to wait another 20 years. Yet those are my desires, and I pray for His will to be done in my life despite my desires. More than any desire I have, I desire for His will. So while I share the desires of my heart with my Heavenly Father, I ask Him to give me the strength to submit to His will in all areas of my life.
It's a process and we are all learning to give him control, and I love that you are forthcoming about where you are in every situation, might as well tell Him, He already knows lol! God is dealing with my heart that I have not reached that point either, He is molding and shaping us! Sounds like your grandmother is full of wise counsel.
ETA: I do understand your desire for marriage and children, I desire the same and I fully intend on that happening, according to his will.