Your mother or your husband??

Guitarhero · Feb 20, 2011

Shimmie said:
You betta' know it.

After Four hours of hard labour...

And multiple weeks of episiotomy recovery thereafter. :lol:

Shimmie · Feb 20, 2011

Volver_Alma_Gitana said:
And multiple weeks of episiotomy recovery thereafter.

Zeal · Feb 20, 2011

I am not married nor dating. However without even thinking I would choose my mother. Do you need an explanation?

Zeal · Feb 20, 2011

Shimmie said:
My husband...but God forbid such a tragedy.

At a moment like that, you're not thinking who is or isn't saved...neither are you thinking one or the other. You're thinking, Oh God! And you gravitate towards the one with whom you are closest. The one to whom I am cleaved. Am I not fitly joined to my husband?

And something else comes into play here..."I took a vow, leaving father and mother; forsaking all others...cleaving unto one another...even unto death. How far would I swim to save him? Would I risk drowning to do so? The thought to hesitate doesn't enter in, (especially men - they don't hesitate to react); I'd just swim to save him.

However, God forbid such a tragedy...to ever happen.

Thanks for keeping it real. I have not read all of the post yet. But what you say makes a lot of sense especially the vows. I don't know what it is like to love as a wife..only a daughter. With that being said.. Rightnow I can only focus on my tree. My Mom. YOU know how I feel about my Mom.

Laela · Feb 20, 2011

Nice & Wavy said:
Once married, the order for the family goes like this:

God
Jesus
Husband
Wife
Children
and then everyone else.

Anything out of this order, will be catastrophic in your life.

God has placed everything the way He desires it to be.

When we follow His plan....it always work out for the good.

Therefore, I will save my husband, period.