deltadreamland
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That has over $30,000 in back child support for his 26 year old son? That was in thousands of dollars worth of debt to the IRS? That was constantly bailing his family out financially? He has 2 daughters, one is 8 and the other is 13, I believe. He's been married once and has a baby mama that is not very happy about his upcoming nuptials.
This is the situation my best friend is about to marry into. She has a good job and great credit.This is her first marriage and she's pouring over $10,000+ into an elaborate wedding with him.
In his defense and from what I have observed, he does appear to be a good father and a wonderful SO to my friend. (from what I can observe, he really loves her). But in your opinion, is that enough to equate to a happy marriage?
Should his financial obligations be ignored because he's a good man? Will his financial issues affect her once they are married? We talked and I wasn't sure if his child support and IRS issues would come back to haunt her after the marriage.
This is the situation my best friend is about to marry into. She has a good job and great credit.This is her first marriage and she's pouring over $10,000+ into an elaborate wedding with him.
In his defense and from what I have observed, he does appear to be a good father and a wonderful SO to my friend. (from what I can observe, he really loves her). But in your opinion, is that enough to equate to a happy marriage?
Should his financial obligations be ignored because he's a good man? Will his financial issues affect her once they are married? We talked and I wasn't sure if his child support and IRS issues would come back to haunt her after the marriage.