Nope. But the sad thing is this is exactly why most men wont admit to it. They Know the woman would be like while walking off.and changed??
NO NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONNONONONONONONONONON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh my lord save me. I feel sick just thinking about it. Never, never, never.and changed??
Instead of an absolute no, I'll say that it's better to not have to deal with it....
...not me, thank the Good Lord...but a sisterfriend of mine dealt with this.... and her husband was a minister/pastor. And I've heard dude preach and sing before. He's anointed by the Lord. (Gifts are given without repentence (Romans 11:28) I don't want to hijack the thread because it was rough to see her go through that and she has a story to tell...and not the average kind... she's still married today and has a beautiful growing family....
In a nutshell, she didn't find out until after they were married. Of course, it devestated her. But thank God she's a praying woman or else it might have taken her out....
I just share that to say that while it's easy and quick to say "H nawwww", the deeper questions are:1) how would you know and 2) if that is the case, maybe be grateful for a man who had the courage and godly conviction to be honest about it and own up to it.... It's easy to want to walk away, but it takes much courage to stay and trust the Lord through that.
The more I'm on this board and as much as I look forward to marriage, it's becoming more clear as to what marriage takes... and so I pray daily....
Nope, just like I wouldn't date a man who had been to prison.
God's forgiveness my cleanse him of his sins but that doesn't mean it's gonna cleanse him of other stuff he may have caught.
And then there are the backsliders...
and changed??
Nope, just like I wouldn't date a man who had been to prison.
God's forgiveness my cleanse him of his sins but that doesn't mean it's gonna cleanse him of other stuff he may have caught.
And then there are the backsliders...
You should post this in the Christian forum since it's about God's Power.
I'm sure that the forgiving nature of Christians and their faith that God cleanses all and that prayer changes things and people would make every answer from a Christian be "Yes. I love the Lord and trust in His power. I know that his faith has changed this man and I will walk in the Light of the Lord with my husband because I too have faith that God will protect us. God wouldn't have sent me this man if it wasn't meant to be."
However MYSELF.... I wouldn't marry a man saying that "God" changed him from being bisexual. But if a guy I was going to marry said that he is bisexual but wants to be married and faithful to only me, I'd consider it. I'm bisexual and I know that I can be monogamous 100%. I hate this association with infidelity and bisexuality. The two do not go hand in hand. People need to get over that lil stereotype. A bisexual man who is comfortable enough to TELL his woman that he is bisexual... is not the typicall sex party HIV slangin' screw everybody bisexual. He's comfotable in who he is, loves who he is, will protect himself no matter WHO the partner is, and is honest with his partners.
That would you date/marry a bisexual man tickled me pink. Cuz people date/marry bisexuals ALL THE TIME without knowing it.
See my cousin's husband revealed to her an incident in his past. I was like what. I wasnt shocked because certain things he did made me thing he was iffy, but then when I found out he put his hands on her.......I already knew it. I am a believer that a man who beats and degrades women is fighting with homosexuality issues, he may not have acted on it but trust they are their. How can you beat a women, but is passive with your "boys" whatever! So when I said my thoughts, she revealed his past to me. Nail on a head.
they are now seperated for about 4 months, different states, thank goodness.
You should post this in the Christian forum since it's about God's Power.
me either actually.I would not knowingly date a bi-sexual man and I don't believe that people can change their sexuality.
~Honey