sunshinebeautiful
Well-Known Member
My friend would like some feedback. She's trying to judge if she's overreacting to this situation (and apparently I'm no help
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She met this guy, went out on a couple of dates about a year ago, and then he disappeared off the face of the Earth without an explanation at the time of what had happened. He reappeared about one month ago and they've been in regular contact with each other since. At this time, he's working abroad temporarily, so their only contact has been over the phone.
Recently, he's been making some sexual references/jokes in conversation. She feels taken aback when he brings it up and she's not sure if she's being overly sensitive, given some negative past relationship experiences. Mind you, they've never even kissed before.
She's wondering if she's feeling too prudish... or if this is just part of the regular dating scene nowadays? At what point would you feel comfortable with making or receiving sexual references, innuendos, or jokes with someone you're dating? Has anyone had an experience like this? What did you do?
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She met this guy, went out on a couple of dates about a year ago, and then he disappeared off the face of the Earth without an explanation at the time of what had happened. He reappeared about one month ago and they've been in regular contact with each other since. At this time, he's working abroad temporarily, so their only contact has been over the phone.
Recently, he's been making some sexual references/jokes in conversation. She feels taken aback when he brings it up and she's not sure if she's being overly sensitive, given some negative past relationship experiences. Mind you, they've never even kissed before.
She's wondering if she's feeling too prudish... or if this is just part of the regular dating scene nowadays? At what point would you feel comfortable with making or receiving sexual references, innuendos, or jokes with someone you're dating? Has anyone had an experience like this? What did you do?