nychaelasymone
Well-Known Member
I've been separated from my husband for a while for good reason. My mother tells me that my husband contacted her to talk to her about how to get me back. I proceed to contact my husband to find out why he felt the need to do that but I was quickly told by him that he didn't contact my mother. My mother lied. She finally admitted that she initiated the convo and felt she should tell me now since she arranged to meet him for lunch. I also found out my mother has been contacting him behind my back for a while to try and find out details of our marriage and the details of why we are separated.
I told my mother she was wrong and that my marriage is my business and if ever I needed to talk or get her opinion I would however - she had no right to contact him. She feels she is owed an explanation and that I am disrespectful. I disagree wholeheartedly. I'm sure she means well but I don't owe her an explanation simply because she wants one.
I made the best decision for myself and my marriage and she needs to respect that. If and when I want to discuss the details with her or anyone I will but I don't owe anyone any information simply because you're related to me and you say you care. Its never a good idea to ever involve your family in your marital issues....barring physical and mental abuse....
I told my mother she was wrong and that my marriage is my business and if ever I needed to talk or get her opinion I would however - she had no right to contact him. She feels she is owed an explanation and that I am disrespectful. I disagree wholeheartedly. I'm sure she means well but I don't owe her an explanation simply because she wants one.
I made the best decision for myself and my marriage and she needs to respect that. If and when I want to discuss the details with her or anyone I will but I don't owe anyone any information simply because you're related to me and you say you care. Its never a good idea to ever involve your family in your marital issues....barring physical and mental abuse....
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