Well I'll be the bad one!!
I've done it before...it wasn't just for attention, but it was for dinner and gifts too!
Just kidding...but I have lead a man on...and I lead him on for 4 years!
Not continuous...but over the course of 4 years! I would talk to him (like someone else said) between prospects or when I was bored.
I was TOTALLY wrong, I made him think we were something only to drop him...when I got "tired" of him....not call for 5 or 6 months at a time...dismiss his calls...and then if I called him out of the blue, he would always welcome me back with open arms! Which would only perpetuate my negative actions/feelings toward him.
Sometimes I would call him...just to see if he would talk to me. I would play games like "What's up stranger?" Pretending he was the one not calling me. (I would change my number sometimes and say this!)
He ALWAYS welcomed me back! I am NOT bragging...I am very ashamed of my behavior and in somewhat of a defense I was young...like 18.
Once I matured and realized that this was unacceptable to treat a person like this, I let him know, that I wasn't interested. I've never had someone treat me like that...but I have definitely been dogged before!!
The weird / sad thing is...I saw him at a restaurant recently...and we spoke. No mixed messages on my end..hadn't talked to him in 5 years...but he was like "Hey, I still have my same number...maybe I can take you out. Call me..please! I miss you." I "politely" declined....but
I felt like a box of cornflakes. Then I found out through a friend of a friend that he was going to try and play me...because of what I did to him.
LOL...you live and you learn!!