mscurly
Well-Known Member
I'm curious because I've recently come to the conclusion that in order to get married you have to settle, bend, or really compromise and let go of a quality you are looking for.
In my past experience the really good looking attractive guys want to be players or play games and don't feel the need to settle down.
So now I have opened myself up to dating men that I am not attracted to physically but are really nice personality wise and treat me much better.
One of my girlfriends has been doing this for years. She dates guys she considers ugly or fat because they treat her good and her experience with the fine men was the same none of them took her serious or wanted to be in a committed relationship/ marriage.
Has anyone else lowered their standards and found that worked?
In my past experience the really good looking attractive guys want to be players or play games and don't feel the need to settle down.
So now I have opened myself up to dating men that I am not attracted to physically but are really nice personality wise and treat me much better.
One of my girlfriends has been doing this for years. She dates guys she considers ugly or fat because they treat her good and her experience with the fine men was the same none of them took her serious or wanted to be in a committed relationship/ marriage.
Has anyone else lowered their standards and found that worked?