Why men Cheat....

12 percent of men are going to cheat no matter what...this doctor is not referring to these type of men....You'll know them because they have a cavalier attitude...
 
1. Men cheat because the feel under appreciated...

2. Make them feel like they are winning with the things they are doing for you.. (He said they won't take advantage of this....they will return the favor)
 
Other reasons why they do it is because, they feel loney, the wife doesn't show them attention, they want to feel admired....
 
3. Seven percent of men will admit it without of being asked

4. Also most of the women they choose are less attractive than the wife
 
He said simple ways to find out if he is cheating is to check cell phone records or place a GPS tracker on the bottom of the car....
 
While they are longing for attention and support...what most men don't understand is that once they cheat, women don't give a uck anymore.
 
The biggest problem men have with sex is the frequency of it ( I can't explain this better...I guess there are exceptions becasue one guy on the show said he was having sex with his wife everynight and was still cheating)

Also men like it when women initiate sex...he said it's like when they give women flowers and do the dishes for us...Doing this makes him feel adored, admired, secure and a like a winner
 
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Book title
The truth about cheating
writer
M Gary Neuman....

(Also, on the show he said he was working on a book about why women cheat....)

you can download his book for free at oprah's website until 7 p.m. tomorrow
 
The whole time I watched I just wanted to choke the life outta those men, especially when they were explaining why they cheated. I could neva be on stage holding DH's hand .. Dirty Loosers!!!
 
Caramel Jewel said:
1. Men cheat because the feel under appreciated...

2. Make them feel like they are winning with the things they are doing for you.. (He said they won't take advantage of this....they will return the favor)
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thats a real one for some men....
some women refuse to show appreciation to a man because they feel that they are doing what they are "supposed" to be doing and not anything special if he's doing all the "right" things......

an appreciative heart gets more of what it appreciates.....and people do thrive off of it, its a lost art to many of us however

works the opposite for women as well....

we as men and women focus alot on what people need to/have to/should be/better be doing and getting all upset when they aren't doing something, but let them be doing something "good" for us and we don't even appreciate they are choosing to do something because they want to not because they have to

appreciation is part of the love equation and its easy to take alot of things for granted
 
Thanks for sharing OP, I missed the show.

I have to say that I'm disappointed in the reasons though. Women receive so many mixed messages, we just can't win.:ohwell:
 
Lawd, reading all these cheating threads will mess a sistas brain up fa real!

Just follow your instincts and trust your heart. Then get proof and then make moves to deal with the situation. You don't need a book to tell you what you already know.
 
Well, I have one reason I think why MARRIED men cheat. If a man is married and is not a Christian and doesn't fear the Lord, then he has no accountability and may cheat. When a man fears the Lord then he wont cheat.
 
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