caribeandiva
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I love this!!! She’s preaching nothing but facts!
Here is the whole thing if you’re interested:
I love this!!! She’s preaching nothing but facts!
Here is the whole thing if you’re interested:
And its actually doable for a shy woman like myself. Because you arent straight up like would have to be. And its flows naturally if a woman needs help or ask a question about something.Yep! I think the dating Matthew Hussey, à dating coach, calls it dropping a hanky.
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@hopeful thank you so much for sharing! I’m glad you were able to get over the fear of flirting first. I have a question though: Do you mean if you had allowed your ex-husband the space to see if his words matched his actions and pursue you, you two wouldn’t have gotten very far in dating? If so that makes a lot of sense.
Got it! Thank you!!Kind of. I’ve tried multiple times to reply to your question here but I keep ending up writing paragraphs and sharing too much. I think I’m saying that I now think it’s ok to choose or drop a hanky (in the beginning) but be careful to not lean in, over function, or chase/pursue a man (physically, emotionally, or energetically), etc. Allow space for him to pursue (or not). Figure out what you need in a relationship and see if he fits the bill. If he shows up in multiple and meaningful ways. Pay attention. Take note and act accordingly.
Hopefully that helps. I just don’t want to go on and on about me or my personal life you know?