Why do guys think something is wrong with you,

[MissJ]

when you don't want to sleep with them about 2 weeks after you started talking to them? I'm confused, and I can't figure this one out for the life of me! I don't even know what to say! You're just getting to know the person at that stage. I don't even see how a relationship could be formed that early. I asked this guy if he thought we had chemistry, and he said, "We have biology."

 

[Theo]

They don't think something wrong with you.... they're just playing mind games is all.

 

[LivingDoll]

when you don't want to sleep with them about 2 weeks after you started talking to them? I'm confused, and I can't figure this one out for the life of me! I don't even know what to say! You're just getting to know the person at that stage. I don't even see how a relationship could be formed that early. I asked this guy if he thought we had chemistry, and he said, "We have biology."

Because so many women will and have, they think anyone who won't is not "normal". Plain stupidity.

 

[MizAvalon]

They don't think something wrong with you.... they're just playing mind games is all.

Exactly. They want to try and see what they can get from you and to see what kind of woman you are. Men like that make things so much more simple because they show you who they are right up front.

 

[MizAvalon]

Because so many women will and have, they think anyone who won't is not "normal". Plain stupidity.

These men know exactly what they are doing. Any person with sense in their head knows that sleeping with someone that you just met isn't normal behavior. Any grown man that is trying to pull that on a woman is testing her to see what kind of girl she is.

I give teenage boys a pass because they are just a big ball of hormones anyway.

 

[MissJ]

Really, I think this guy doesn't know any better. That's seemingly all he's been accustomed to. I had to try to explain it to him, and I felt like I was the crazy one. He's not retarded either.

He's really religious, too, but I don't see how he doesn't equate Christianity with s*xual purity.

 

[Bunny77]

He's really religious, too, but I don't see how he doesn't equate Christianity with s*xual purity.

Few men do, it seems.


I wouldn't even waste my time and energy explaining anything to him. This is the same guy who wanted you to come to his place and sit on his couch, right?

Next!

 

[vestaluv1]

OK...here's chance for me to vent a little bit.
GUYS GET ON MY NERVES.
Well, most of them.
There's no in between with some of these twerps.
They seem to think that it's ok to go from introductions to sex .
WHY...because there are loose women who will do this.
My friend who is a so called devout Catholic who prays to Mary every single day told me a week and a half ago that she met a guy...ok...cool right....
On Monday, she tells me she slept with him...What the ****. What did she want me to say about that? In my head, I was thinking....'SLAPPER!'. The girl didn't even use somethin'.
I have another friend I'm not happy with either , but anywayz...

To sorta answer the question, I really don't think guys think there's something wrong with you, I think what happens is

1. Their ego is crushed when you turn them down
2. They are big headed pricks who get a reality check when you turn them down
3. They can't believe you actually have some respect for yourself
4. They trying to figure out if you're easy or not
What gets me is, these guys will then find out a girl is easy and sleep with her anyway...LOOSE A$$ DOGS!

I've been with SO for 7 years, but I've come across guys who get proper angry with me for not wanting to go there or anywhere for that matter and I end up falling out with these fake people.

YOU KNOW THERE AIN'T NUTHIN' WRONG WID U...KEEP HOLDIN' UR HEAD UP COZ GUYS WHO THINK LIKE THIS DON'T NEED TO BE AROUND YOU ANYWAYZ...IMO.

YEP, I'VE FINISHED.
:thatsall:

 

[Simply_Kelz]

OK...here's chance for me to vent a little bit.
GUYS GET ON MY NERVES.
Well, most of them.
There's no in between with some of these twerps.
They seem to think that it's ok to go from introductions to sex .
WHY...because there are loose women who will do this.
My friend who is a so called devout Catholic who prays to Mary every single day told me a week and a half ago that she met a guy...ok...cool right....
On Monday, she tells me she slept with him...What the ****. What did she want me to say about that? In my head, I was thinking....'SLAPPER!'. The girl didn't even use somethin'.
I have another friend I'm not happy with either , but anywayz...

To sorta answer the question, I really don't think guys think there's something wrong with you, I think what happens is

1. Their ego is crushed when you turn them down
2. They are big headed pricks who get a reality check when you turn them down
3. They can't believe you actually have some respect for yourself
4. They trying to figure out if you're easy or not
What gets me is, these guys will then find out a girl is easy and sleep with her anyway...LOOSE A$$ DOGS!

I've been with SO for 7 years, but I've come across guys who get proper angry with me for not wanting to go there or anywhere for that matter and I end up falling out with these fake people.

YOU KNOW THERE AIN'T NUTHIN' WRONG WID U...KEEP HOLDIN' UR HEAD UP COZ GUYS WHO THINK LIKE THIS DON'T NEED TO BE AROUND YOU ANYWAYZ...IMO.

YEP, I'VE FINISHED.
:thatsall:

 

[MissJ]

vestaluv, very entertaining post.

 

[gabby1]

Dont fall for it run not walk from this type of man

 

[Duchesse]

OK...here's chance for me to vent a little bit.
GUYS GET ON MY NERVES.
Well, most of them.
There's no in between with some of these twerps.
They seem to think that it's ok to go from introductions to sex .
WHY...because there are loose women who will do this.
My friend who is a so called devout Catholic who prays to Mary every single day told me a week and a half ago that she met a guy...ok...cool right....
On Monday, she tells me she slept with him...What the ****. What did she want me to say about that? In my head, I was thinking....'SLAPPER!'. The girl didn't even use somethin'.
I have another friend I'm not happy with either , but anywayz...

To sorta answer the question, I really don't think guys think there's something wrong with you, I think what happens is

1. Their ego is crushed when you turn them down
2. They are big headed pricks who get a reality check when you turn them down
3. They can't believe you actually have some respect for yourself
4. They trying to figure out if you're easy or not
What gets me is, these guys will then find out a girl is easy and sleep with her anyway...LOOSE A$$ DOGS!

I've been with SO for 7 years, but I've come across guys who get proper angry with me for not wanting to go there or anywhere for that matter and I end up falling out with these fake people.

YOU KNOW THERE AIN'T NUTHIN' WRONG WID U...KEEP HOLDIN' UR HEAD UP COZ GUYS WHO THINK LIKE THIS DON'T NEED TO BE AROUND YOU ANYWAYZ...IMO.

YEP, I'VE FINISHED.
:thatsall:

Bwahahah!!!You were on a roll with the smilies gal!

Guy are such losers to me nowadays..once upon a time, I still had hopes for the bunch, but particularly those in my age range,mid-late twenties are all a bunch of horny, too quick moving, no respect baastids. Like my Trini neighbor says "Snakes like holes. Moist and dark, they gonna try to get in any one they see, anytime they see it".

 

[glamazon386]

They don't think something wrong with you.... they're just playing mind games is all.

Exactly. They're trying you that's all. Because more than likely trust the ones that did that quick they're calling them all kinds of names or don't respect them.

 

[prettypuff1]

when you don't want to sleep with them about 2 weeks after you started talking to them? I'm confused, and I can't figure this one out for the life of me! I don't even know what to say! You're just getting to know the person at that stage. I don't even see how a relationship could be formed that early. I asked this guy if he thought we had chemistry, and he said, "We have biology."

Aww man


because i know some hoez who will

 

[simplertimes]

Dont fall for it run not walk from this type of man

I am so frustrated with this very thing...Men have it so easy now

 

[vestaluv1]

Bwahahah!!!You were on a roll with the smilies gal!

Guy are such losers to me nowadays..once upon a time, I still had hopes for the bunch, but particularly those in my age range,mid-late twenties are all a bunch of horny, too quick moving, no respect baastids. Like my Trini neighbor says "Snakes like holes. Moist and dark, they gonna try to get in any one they see, anytime they see it".

My sentiments exactly. It's a sad sad situation.

 

[BrooklynSouth]

MissJ..don't even concern yourself..it's just a ploy..I'll never forget the night a guy literally asked me out of his car and left me on the side of the road for answering .."I don't really know that yet;" in response to "We are going to have sex some day right?" Maintain your standards..guys have them we do too!!

 

[MizAvalon]

Bwahahah!!!You were on a roll with the smilies gal!

Guy are such losers to me nowadays..once upon a time, I still had hopes for the bunch, but particularly those in my age range,mid-late twenties are all a bunch of horny, too quick moving, no respect baastids. Like my Trini neighbor says "Snakes like holes. Moist and dark, they gonna try to get in any one they see, anytime they see it".

Oh my, what an analogy!

 

[MizAvalon]

MissJ..don't even concern yourself..it's just a ploy..I'll never forget the night a guy literally asked me out of his car and left me on the side of the road for answering .."I don't really know that yet;" in response to "We are going to have sex some day right?" Maintain your standards..guys have them we do too!!

OMG!! That is terrible.

 

[vestaluv1]

MissJ..don't even concern yourself..it's just a ploy..I'll never forget the night a guy literally asked me out of his car and left me on the side of the road for answering .."I don't really know that yet;" in response to "We are going to have sex some day right?" Maintain your standards..guys have them we do too!!

I'm familiar with this type of ignorance. When I was in my late teens (I'm in my 20's now), I had a so called guy friend who asked me to leave his house because I wouldn't sleep with him...twisted or what.
I guess as soon as I left he checked his phone to see what loose chick he could call? I guess he thought I was wasting his time .

 

[MissJ]

Like my Trini neighbor says "Snakes like holes. Moist and dark, they gonna try to get in any one they see, anytime they see it".

I'm gonna use that one one day.

 

[MissJ]

MissJ..don't even concern yourself..it's just a ploy..I'll never forget the night a guy literally asked me out of his car and left me on the side of the road for answering .."I don't really know that yet;" in response to "We are going to have sex some day right?" Maintain your standards..guys have them we do too!!

Wow, that's messed up. How ever did you get home?

 

[phynestone]

All they do is think about sex. What really pisses me off is when they talk to you for a while, they know your standards and intentions, but still TRY you! OMG!

There are too many women who make it so easy for them.