Were you raised in a Christian home? If so, were you encouraged to ask questions?
I was not raised in a Christian home. My mother was raised JW but left as a teenager and never bothered to raise me or my siblings in any type of religion or church community.
Were you ever agnostic/atheist? If so, how did you come to Christ?
Perhaps not actively or intellectually, but I didn't become interested in religion until high school. I started visiting a Catholic church with my best friend from HS who is Catholic. I started asking all kinds of questions, studied, and then after about two years decided to convert to Catholicism. Just a few months before entering college I was baptized and confirmed. My conversion experience was inspired by the example of several saints and my studies of the Bible.
Be honest- when things are well in your life, do you thank God or just chalk it up to chance? When things are not well in your life, do you blame God?
When things are well, I do thank God because I believe good things come from He who is Goodness itself
. When things suck, I see it as an opportunity to identify my hardship and suffering with the suffering of Christ and offer it up to God for the edification of myself and others. Our society hates suffering because it has no meaning--but when I think on the suffering of Christ, first of all my own suffering pales in comparison, and secondly, I see it as a way to "carry my cross" and follow Him.
Do you believe Christianity is a religion or a relationship?
Both. Christianity has a theological system, doctrines, beliefs and practices--so it is a religion. At the same time, it has both a PUBLIC and PRIVATE life, and so that private aspect is the relationship we have with Our Savior.
Do you question the Bible? If you do, have you found supporting evidence for your questions?
I don't question the validity or truth of the Bible--if I did I wouldn't proclaim myself a fully committed and believing Christian. Do I question "What does this passage mean?" or "How can I better understand this?" then yes, I do that! It helps that I have a few years of formal biblical studies training under my belt (went to a Christian university for undergrad).
How do you view God? Do you view Him as unfair/fair?
God is the Creator and Lord of all existence. He exists as a Trinity--Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. He is all-holy, all-wise, all-good, omnipotent, omnipresent, infinite, and Merciful and Just.
Do you view the Bible as sexist?
Hmm, I would have to ask what you mean by "sexist" because it is a political term that we use in today's society that did not exist or have meaning in antiquated Biblical society (or antiquated society in general).
What cliches do you refrain from saying?
Can't think of any, but I don't like cliches!
Do you witness? If so, how and when?
I try to witness first and foremost with my life...my actions. I just read a very good book (as a devotion) where the author says that the greatest witness we can give is to "be a saint." That is more powerful than any academic argument or spirited sermon.
I believe apologetics is meant to remove honest intellectual obstacles a person may have with accepting Christianity.
Do you feel like when you witness, you are imposing your beliefs on another? How do you filter out when to witness and when not to so that you won't seem 'pushy?'
As someone who didn't grow up Christian and who encountered quite a few annoying Christians, I would never want to beat someone over the head with my beliefs, especially in a mean-spirited manner. I have studied other religions and philosophies and enjoy discussing issues with people of different beliefs and perspectives. When I present my beliefs, it's usually because the person asks me a question or presents me with a challenge, which is fine. I believe Peter says in one of his letters to be ready with an answer and to share with people the hope that is within us.
With this said, I can't pretend that some people, especially those who are antagonistic toward Christianity, use this as a crutch or a brick wall to dodge honest dialogue with thoughtful Christians. It's so easy today as soon as we open our mouths for someone to whine "Stop pushing your beliefs on me!" Firstly, our society in general is so intellectually lazy we can't even recognize the difference between a good argument and a bad argument, and people need to acknowledge that explaining or defending your beliefs does not equal pushing your beliefs on someone.
Why would it be okay or acceptable for that other poster to come into this thread telling us that most of us (Christians) are only Christian because we were told to be and that we should check out "Kemet" religion? YET, let us proclaim Jesus Christ and all of a sudden we're closed-minded religion-pushers.
There is a double standard and hypocrisy that goes on with this.
Do you believe the Bible is antiquated?
Not at all. It's God's Word and speaks truths which are objective--meant for all people in all times and places. I have found that often people who think it's antiquated think that its
moral code is antiquated--which makes them feel better about their sins. They are quick to quote the passages about compassion and mercy--those virtues never seem "antiquated," but when it comes to things like fornication, adultery, greed, etc. all of a sudden they can't be bothered with such "antiquated" morality.
Have you noticed that when you provide someone with biblical advice they may shrug it off and dismiss it but when you word the same advice in a secular way, they accept it? How do you deal with this?
yep. I just KIM and pray for them.
Do you/have you attended a church that researched Biblical history?
Yes, but a lot of studying I did on my own b/c I was just so excited when I first started! I didn't want to wait for class, I just HAD to keep going!
How do you maintain your faith/trust in God? It's so easy to be like, there's no God when you see bad things happen around you (or even in the Bible) and dismiss this Christianity walk altogther. In fact, dismissing it's even encouraged.
I just think of Christ and the evil He suffered, and it is a reminder that He understands what suffering is, what injustice is, and that suffering can be turned into redemption.
I go to church, I pray, I receive communion, I try to emulate God's mercy, I try to live a life of love and justice. When I see people who are far more learned than I, far more pious and holy than I...I am in awe and see them as big brothers and sisters to imitate. They are shining examples of the Body of Christ.
When you believe in God (and worst to some the Bible and Jesus) you are treated like you're brainwashed. How do you handle this?
Depending on the person I'm interacting with, I may not respond to them, because some people just like to bait you into a fruitless argument. However, if the person is honest, respectful, and have questions or objections or wants to participate in honest dialogue, then I will engage that person.