Why are Cancer Men so emotionally unstable?

[SkorpioLust]

I don't care what ya'll say about Cancer men lol they can't be any worse than Gemini men. Those are the ****'s you have to worry about especially if they can put it down in the bedroom - you'll be hooked!

The Gemini men i've dated were like the spawn of satan, wishy-washy and only wanted to commit once you broke up with them ( I got two still waiting for me to give them another chance, ).

One thing I love about my Cancer SO is he is loyal and I feel very secure in my relationship with him, something I lacked in other relationships.

I can't stand Gemini men. They think they are so charming. They think they are so witty -- and you know, I've never heard one say an original thought.

They lack depth and are too flighty for me. (I know I shouldn't bash a whole sign. Perhaps I should say most Gemini men, not all)

 

[HoneyA]

Not into all this stuff but just for the fun of it. I'm Cancer and I'm dating a Cancerian. He is the sweetest, most gentle person I have ever met. He's very good at articulating his feelings and is always trying to get me to do the same. I don't have to guess with him. He's not very emotional at all either. I used to be really emotional and erratic but now I am much more in control of my emotions and happier for it. So far what I have noticed is that I feel at peace with him and yesterday he said the same about me and I have never told him that I felt at peace with him. Honestly I think it depends on the individual. I'm sure they are many people not born between June 21 and July 22 who are "emotionally unstable".

 

[Duchesse]

I've reunited with a Cancer from last spring. I truly can't get a handle on him. He chased me down for several months, and I was quite resistant (actually I was a bit rude and distant). So this past Thanksgiving he contacted me again, and I felt bad, he was a nice guy, so I called him back. Anyway, we met up and had a nice time, he tells me his feelings for me haven't changed...he was hurt when I stopped communicating with him...I apologize...blahblah..we make plans to see each other more often and communicate better.

Then he gets distant and flakes. I don't know if he is "getting me back" or something, but I'm confuzzled. I feel like he is testing me to see if I like him or not, or wants me to initiate things. I'm a Virgo, and will cut you off with the quickness, I don't have patience for games and confusion.

 

[mnemosyne]

My Cancer is super stable, but he's one day away from being a Gemini like me so IDK.

 

[MzK]

No, I am a Taurus. We are very similar to Caps though. Either I'm finishing a Caps thoughts, or having WWIII with them, lol...

Same here--fellow Taurean. I'm dealing with a Cancer guy now, and smh...if I don't SPEAK to this man, he gets in a tizzy, lmao.
Loves to talk...vent....sex, lol. VERY CONFIDENT dude.
And he complains like such a girl.............lol..........but I get a kick out of it.

 

[MzK]

im a Taurus too....

when im wrong..ill admit it...but then my patience runs thin especially when i feel they want you to beg and plead...igga please....once a TAURUS CUTS U OFF.....YOU CUT OFF....he better calm down

that is so true!!

 

[MzK]

are any of your cancer guys functioning alcholics?????

OMG, YES!!!!!!!!!

He LOVES Heiniken (sp?) LOL!

 

[Skyfall]

sigh..................

 

[sky_blu]

I don't care what ya'll say about Cancer men lol they can't be any worse than Gemini men. Those are the ****'s you have to worry about especially if they can put it down in the bedroom - you'll be hooked! The Gemini men i've dated were like the spawn of satan, wishy-washy and only wanted to commit once you broke up with them ( I got two still waiting for me to give them another chance, ).

One thing I love about my Cancer SO is he is loyal and I feel very secure in my relationship with him, something I lacked in other relationships.

Yeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssss!

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

Mines is a Cancer and Im a Capricorn and he gets on my nerves sometimes!!!! He's very emotionally dependent and extremely sensitive. Im the total opposite, very outspoken and have no tact. Im moody also where sometimes I just don't feel like being bothered and love my space. Sometimes he will call and I'll just hit the ignore button or just tell him I dont wanna be bothered, next thing I know Im getting flowers and text messages tawkin bout some i love you....and im like go kick rocks.

Its like he likes the bytchy side of me. He is like gum on the bottom of my shoe...no matter how many times I scrape the bottom, it ne er comes off.

But the sex is the bomb tho....with his unstable Mable ***.

 

[RarityFluttershy]

I don't care what ya'll say about Cancer men lol they can't be any worse than Gemini men. Those are the ****'s you have to worry about especially if they can put it down in the bedroom - you'll be hooked!

The Gemini men i've dated were like the spawn of satan, wishy-washy and only wanted to commit once you broke up with them ( I got two still waiting for me to give them another chance, ).

This Is Me And My Long Time Gemini.The Good Thing Is We Can Fall In Love With Each Other Over And Over............Without Remembering Our Past Hurts Inflicted On Each Other.

*Sigh*

I Swear This Is The Only Man Who I've Loved And He'll Say The Same. These Gemini's Will Turn You Out In The Bedroom Too.

Now Cancers They Are......
Sensitive, Mama Boys, Liars, Cheaters, Overly Protective, Moody As Hell.
But They'll Commit To The One They Love, Good Providers, Hoards Money, Almost Always The Relationships They Have Are Long Term.

 

[Windsy]

Mines is a Cancer and Im a Capricorn and he gets on my nerves sometimes!!!! He's very emotionally dependent and extremely sensitive. Im the total opposite, very outspoken and have no tact. Im moody also where sometimes I just don't feel like being bothered and love my space. Sometimes he will call and I'll just hit the ignore button or just tell him I dont wanna be bothered, next thing I know Im getting flowers and text messages tawkin bout some i love you....and im like go kick rocks.

Its like he likes the bytchy side of me. He is like gum on the bottom of my shoe...no matter how many times I scrape the bottom, it ne er comes off.

But the sex is the bomb tho....with his unstable Mable ***.

you know you lubs you some him!!!!

 

[Windsy]

My baby is a Cancer and while we are very different when it comes to expressing emotions...I wouldn't trade him in for the world.

He's sensitive, but I always know when something is bothering him, he expresses his emotions and we can deal with our issues right there and then and move on from there.

He's emotional, but I've dealt with unemotional men this Cancer man is refreshing.

He's loyal and I love it...I'm not guessing or questioning his intentions, they show!!!

He's romantic, eh...I can deal with it; my only challenge here is getting him to cross over into my world of explorative adventurous sex - I'm confident I can accomplish this...then it will be a SLAM DUNK!!!

I love my Cancer man......when you've dealt with emotionless men, you can appreciate the sensitive side of a Cancer man....

 

[Ladybelle]

Never been involved with a cancer man, but my dad is a cancer. He was/is an awesome father but I don't see how in the hayle my mom dealt with him. He was very emotional & sensitive. The simplest comment would make him so self conscious. And, it seemed like every so often he would get this "woe is me" attitude. I remember trying to pep him up sometimes & remind him of his own greatness. His highs were great, his lows were awful.

On the flip side, like others have mentioned about cancer - he would give his last to his wife & kids, often went without so we could have, he was very protective, excellent provider, never failed to express his emotions & communicating is very strong trait of his.

My mom is a sagittarius, so I'm assuming they make a good match, they've been together for 36 years.

 

[Windsy]

Never been involved with a cancer man, but my dad is a cancer. He was/is an awesome father but I don't see how in the hayle my mom dealt with him. He was very emotional & sensitive. The simplest comment would make him so self conscious. And, it seemed like every so often he would get this "woe is me" attitude. I remember trying to pep him up sometimes & remind him of his own greatness. His highs were great, his lows were awful.

On the flip side, like others have mentioned about cancer - he would give his last to his wife & kids, often went without so we could have, he was very protective, excellent provider, never failed to express his emotions & communicating is very strong trait of his.

My mom is a sagittarius, so I'm assuming they make a good match, they've been together for 36 years.

hmm......Sagitarisu isn't a good match for the Cancer and they've been together for 36 years...this just proves my SO's point that the Zodiac has nothing to do with it but everything to do with 2 people making it work....thank ya for this post....

 

[Ladybelle]

hmm......Sagitarisu isn't a good match for the Cancer and they've been together for 36 years...this just proves my SO's point that the Zodiac has nothing to do with it but everything to do with 2 people making it work....thank ya for this post....

Lol! You're welcome.

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[daydreem2876]

or how about when they cut you off and then slowly creep back in on some" can you please find some time for me from your busy schedule"
im like dude wasnt you the one that gave me my kicking rocks

^^^^^THIS RIGHT HERE!!!!!

I just let him pout and come back when he's ready... thank God we are only friends so I just don't talk to him. A relationship would never work.

 

[aleemah]

You haven't met an emotionally unstable man until you have met a true pisces man. Leo women stay clear of them. Run, don't walk!
Cancer men are frustrating to say the least but they are fun

 

[CurlyMoo]

hmm......Sagitarisu isn't a good match for the Cancer and they've been together for 36 years...this just proves my SO's point that the Zodiac has nothing to do with it but everything to do with 2 people making it work....thank ya for this post....

The sun signs aren't compatible but the rest of the chart could be. It could be that his Venus, Moon or Ascent sign is in Sagitarius or her Mars, Moon and Ascent in Cancer. It actaully seems that the longest running relationships are opposite signs. My brother a Cancer has been married to his wife an Aquarius for 37 years.

The longest running marriages are from those that are baby boomers. No matter what the signs, they tend to be more committed to the marriage.

 

[Windsy]

The sun signs aren't compatible but the rest of the chart could be. It could be that his Venus, Moon or Ascent sign is in Sagitarius or her Mars, Moon and Ascent in Cancer. It actaully seems that the longest running relationships are opposite signs. My brother a Cancer has been married to his wife an Aquarius for 37 years.

The longest running marriages are from those that are baby boomers. No matter what the signs, they tend to be more committed to the marriage.

Thanks for this post also the last part really has me thinking....

 

[Kinkyhairlady]

Cancer men are way too sensitive for me! I'm a gemini and we don't hold our tongues so I'm constantly hurting a cancer man. Surprisingly the two men I've ever really loved were cancer men and both hurt me. I now fear Cancer men. One thing I could say is that they are romantic and passionate lovers. When they love they love hard. I don't know how to handle men like that and may push you away with my sarcasm and negative attitude.

 

[Kinkyhairlady]

I've reunited with a Cancer from last spring. I truly can't get a handle on him. He chased me down for several months, and I was quite resistant (actually I was a bit rude and distant). So this past Thanksgiving he contacted me again, and I felt bad, he was a nice guy, so I called him back. Anyway, we met up and had a nice time, he tells me his feelings for me haven't changed...he was hurt when I stopped communicating with him...I apologize...blahblah..we make plans to see each other more often and communicate better.

Then he gets distant and flakes. I don't know if he is "getting me back" or something, but I'm confuzzled. I feel like he is testing me to see if I like him or not, or wants me to initiate things. I'm a Virgo, and will cut you off with the quickness, I don't have patience for games and confusion.

I have a pycho that has been after me for years and he is a Cancer and just like the guy you describe. I was about to give him a chance in 2009 we even kissed to let him know I was serious but he flaked on me. When I backed out he started crying again saying he did not believe I really wanted to be with him. He is an emotional mess. He had a child with someone else and blames me for pushing him to another women that he does not even love. I truly dodged a bullet with his crazy arse!

 

[seraphim712]

I have unrequited love for a Cancer, yet I'm with a Capricorn...to bad I'm a Leo...*sigh*...

 

[PinkyPromise]

I don't know how many of you knew about the issues with my ex. But yeah, he's a cancer. I'm a Capricorn but my rising is in Cancer so . .

 

[Skyfall]

the mind games they play....... no bueno..

 

[itismehmmkay]

They make great friends.
I love the emotion/sensitivity tho. I'm a Virgo, and my Venus is in Scorpio; supposed to rule how you work in relationships. I need deep/heavy connections. I like all water signs tho, but feel like I could prob only really be in a relationship w/ a Scorpio. We'll see.

 

[Triniwegian]

Cancer men are very trustworthy and loyal.. But... they do not trust anybody. I have noticed that cancers are very quick to think the worst in people...Do y'all agree?

 

[Hersheygurl]

It's amazing how accurate the descriptions for each sign are. I have been married to my crab for 7 years, and my DD is also a crab. They are both so sensitive, sweet, "mothering", and protective. I feel so loved and taken care of. DH is romantic, passionate, and is most happy at home with his family. Cancers are crazy about their mothers, so it's good to have a DD that is a cancer, but if your man is one, be prepared to befriend his mama .

The negative side is that the both of them can be moody at times, or sulk when they are hurt. When their "wall" goes up, it's at times a herculean task to get through to them.

When they get like that, I just use my Libra charm to pull them right out of their little "cave" and their moodiness usually goes away. My sister is a Pisces, so I have experience with the emotional side of water signs.

 

[Honey Bee]

My man is a Scorpio with a Cancer ascendant. Pray for me, y'all.

(I'm a Taurus with a Pisces ascendant, so it works... mostly.)

 

[kupenda]

My dad is a cancer. I want to bust him in the face sometimes. That shutting down for days thing is so childish! Grow up. Ugh. Will NOT be dating a cancer


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