Why are Cancer Men so emotionally unstable?
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WhipEffectz1
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They suck sometimes but their ways are the same things that make you like them sometimes, lol.
pisceschica
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Because they are water signs. .
I'm a pisces but I'm not the typical emotional pisces. . so I do much better with earth signs (cappies virgos) than with more emotional scorpio and cancer. .esp cancer
I'm a pisces but I'm not the typical emotional pisces. . so I do much better with earth signs (cappies virgos) than with more emotional scorpio and cancer. .esp cancer
LivingDoll
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YES!!!!!! I HATE that quality about Cancer men. I had one who was a cryer. Her cried all the time...for anything. He called crying me one day and told me that the DR told him that he may have testicular cancer talking about "I just wanna be held".
He wanted to marry me but I just couldn't deal with his girlie traits. I'm a Cancer too...we can't both be a crying emotional mess. How he look crying on my shoulder? Then I would start crying too. We wouldn't accomplish anything together.
He wanted to marry me but I just couldn't deal with his girlie traits. I'm a Cancer too...we can't both be a crying emotional mess. How he look crying on my shoulder? Then I would start crying too. We wouldn't accomplish anything together.
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DayStar
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LivingDoll
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never experienced this but thanks for the laugh
Girl, I have LOTS of stories about him and his crying. I would post more but I don't feel like it.
I had another Cancer man who was emotionally unavailable. He was a closet alcoholic and couldn't commit to a serious relationship. He was a GOOD lover though. WHEW!
ETA: They were both liars too. They would lie about the most simple things.
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STLCoverGirl
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Wow, my ex husband is a cancer...he is like THE emotionally unstable model for all cancers. He would whine and get all emotional if he didn't get his way. His needs always had to come first, he actually called me last week all emotional talking about "I just need to talk and vent about some things...". It's always about him....I can't deal with a cancer again. I remember one time he cried because he didn't get everything he wanted for his b-day.
Bunny77
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thats all
any stories?
I mean when they get mad they just shut down...
if you "hurt" them they just shut down.....for days...
i dunno if i can deal with all these girlie traits
Uh, I think that's just all men.
My ex was like that and he's an Aries, so I don't think signs have a thing to do with it!
**Tasha*Love**
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Thank you!!! I was thinking the same thing! I know a Saggitarius, Aries, and Gemini that are all the same way!
**Tasha*Love**
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Ummm...I am sitting here thinking how I would have responded to this? 
erplexed I understand him being scared of maybe having cancer but if a man tells me he just wants to be held?? 
I couldn't deal with this either Crying over birthday gifts??? I probably would have hung up in his face!
erplexed I understand him being scared of maybe having cancer but if a man tells me he just wants to be held??
I couldn't deal with this either
Crying over birthday gifts??? I probably would have hung up in his face!
BKVincy
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Im still good friends with my relevant Ex who is a Cancer hes is a real arse but i dunno i dont mind it. Im a Virgo so when I see him like that I just give him his space. When he is ready to come around then go go back to being friends again. He is however VERY self absorbed
and i have no problem telling him how much of a penis he can really bebut he likes to share cry time
hes a good listener I cry to him and he cries to me
DayStar
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girl shaddup!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hell naw
hell naw
I remember one time he cried because he didn't get everything he wanted for his b-day.
DayStar
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missty1029
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OMG!!! I really laughed at loud off of this thread! I cannot escape Cancer men. And yes they are like that! I have two cancer ex's and one I'm dating. My nephew is a cancer and my friend just married a cancer.
And I heard that plenty of times. "What about my feelings" What about them bro???
They are giving people, but their emotions are a mess. They withdraw like crazy and have no problem locking up in a room. And then want to you come to the room and hug them and coddle them.
They also hate to be wrong.
And I heard that plenty of times. "What about my feelings" What about them bro???
They are giving people, but their emotions are a mess. They withdraw like crazy and have no problem locking up in a room. And then want to you come to the room and hug them and coddle them.
They also hate to be wrong.
DayStar
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i aint never come across a man like this in my life........dont get me wrong...cancer men are very sweet, loving, family oriented...but that emotional pass me the Kleenex thing is tripping me out....now this guy doesnt cry..but he POUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM like WTF???
.....dont get me wrong...cancer men are very sweet, loving, family oriented...but that emotional pass me the Kleenex thing is tripping me out....now this guy doesnt cry..but he POUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM like WTF???
He is however VERY self absorbed
but he likes to share cry time
DayStar
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I thought i was tripping at first.....
and can we say they dont like to be told what to do...this is like their pet peeve...
baby change the channel..him: dont tell me what to do!
and can we say they dont like to be told what to do...this is like their pet peeve
...baby change the channel..him: dont tell me what to do!
YES! I hate that, I'm not the type to coax you out of your room with breadcrumbs, stay there and rot, lol...
LivingDoll
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Ummm...I am sitting here thinking how I would have responded to this?
Girl, I just got quiet, then I said " I gotta go". He was like what's wrong? Why? I said, just....because.....I gotta go. BYE.
I never called him back. He called me back a few days later and asked why I hung up. I told him that he me made me feel like the roles were reversed and he was the woman and I was the man. I was not feeling that. Not at all.
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BKVincy
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I thought i was tripping at first.....
and can we say they dont like to be told what to do...this is like their pet peeve
baby change the channel..him: dont tell me what to do!
Yeah they dont like being told what to do
unless they gonna get 
then its a turn on for them
BKVincy
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I live by this motto are you a cap????but when you do that they think you dont care and then go into the abyss even more
they can be really fustrating I give the cancer in my life leaway because his mother died recently- in his arms
and they were very close so hes been a real basketcase but Weve known each other since we were 13 and I cant turn my back on him and he knows it. so Im just waiting for his wounds to heal so I can go back to telling him what he can do to himself
but when you do that they think you dont care and then go into the abyss even more
I give the cancer in my life leaway because his mother died recently- in his arms
No, I am a Taurus. We are very similar to Caps though. Either I'm finishing a Caps thoughts, or having WWIII with them, lol...
im a Taurus too....
when im wrong..ill admit it...but then my patience runs thin especially when i feel they want you to beg and plead...igga please....once a TAURUS CUTS U OFF.....YOU CUT OFF....he better calm down
Yay, a fellow Bull! So what signs do you feel you are most compatible with, and who if any do you avoid?
BKVincy
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Im a Virgo
from what I understand we are all suppose to blend wellTaurus Capicorn Virgo and Cancers
I dont get along well with Pieces....
im a Taurus too....
when im wrong..ill admit it...but then my patience runs thin especially when i feel they want you to beg and plead...igga please....once a TAURUS CUTS U OFF.....YOU CUT OFF....he better calm down
I never admit to being wrong but I have a ton of paitence
maybe thats why I can deal with their moody behavior
DayStar
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im good with Cancers, Virgos, Capricorns, supposedly Pisces
I run fast from Aquariuses and Leos .....Aquarius men think they always doing YOU a favor !
I run fast from Aquariuses and Leos .....Aquarius men think they always doing YOU a favor !
BKVincy
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Leo men need to much darn praise 24/7 you need to make them feel like dem hotta than fry plantin
OMG!! i jus got out of a relationship with a cancer man. i couldn't understand him. He would shut himself off from people including me for days, weeks at a time ..no word no nothing. He was soo self centered to. Always about him him him.
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very
to me
but lawwwd he was fine!!
He was the greatest lover though. one week he would be soo loving, so emotioinal, talking about us,having kids and the future. nex week he would turn his phone off..wth! i let him him get away with a lot because he lost his parents..but evrything done was because he lost his parents..he used that every chance he got and loved to use the 'u don't understand'. i swear i think he was mad because he got with me and found out i could relate to parent loss. he was very
to mebut lawwwd he was fine!!
Cancers make great friends, Virgos make excellent frenemies, and Capricorns are good. This guy I'm kinda interested in is a Pisces, we will see...
I have a Aquarius friend that does have entitlement issues, definitely...
I run from Libras.
Sagittariuses tend to be attracted at first sight to me, but I've never dated one.
I want to try a Scorpio and another Taurus.
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