ZLUVSNEWZEE
Well-Known Member
I live in San Francisco and I'm a plus size girl so I know that automatically puts me on the back burner for dates but I never ever get asked out. I don't understand it. I am round but pretty and I dress nice I am always out. Not nightclub out but out. I don't understand why I never ever ever meet men, ever. It's starting to get depressing. I know that God may feel I'm not ready for a relationship and that's cool but I don't think it's normal to have absolutely no male attention when you want it. I feel like as soon as somebody winks at me I'll be all over them and make a bad relationship decision like I've done in the past due to lonliness. I don't understand why I am so so so single. Could it be my energy, my ora, sending off a bad vibe. Sometimes I see them looking but they never approach. My self-esteem is dwindling. Is there anything I can do? I know I have so many other things to focus on, like my 2 year old, my school, work, career aspirations but everyone needs cuddling and romance and I definitely do. I want to feel attractive to someone other than my baby daddy. Him and I are no longer but he makes it a point to tell me I look good, but I don't want the compliments from him. I've been with him only for the last 3 years and I'm ready to move on, to see what it's like to hang out with someone else. Any advice?