What's up with with the dating scene?

[FemmeFatale]

What is it with men not wanting to take women out on real dates these days? Like a formal date, not let's hang out or let's chill..my girlfriends around the country all have the same complaint. It's like no one knows how to date or what a date is..what's happening? Is anyone here experiencing this?

LHCF Disclaimer: I'm not talking about all men.

 

[JFemme]

LHCF Disclaimer: I'm not talking about all men.

::carry on::

 

[LunadeMiel]

What is it with men not wanting to take women out on real dates these days? Like a formal date, not let's hang out or let's chill..my girlfriends around the country all have the same complaint. It's like no one knows how to date or what a date is..what's happening? Is anyone here experiencing this?

LHCF Disclaimer: I'm not talking about all men.

Because some of these women are allowing it When I was single any man that hinted at "let's hang out" or suggested something that was subpar didn't get a call back. I know this is cliche but you show people how to treat you.

 

[ConstantlyDynamic]

some guys are scared about being rejected so they ask to "hang out" first. they try to figure out if the girl likes them THEN they ask her out on a real date. some guys are confident enough to go straight for a date. at least, that's what i've seen

 

[Deluxe]

What's up with the women still talking to dudes who say let's hang-out? Women are really taking the gold-digger songs to heart, they've been duped. I just don't understand it.

Women have also bought into the thinking that everything between the sexes should be equal in relationships. NOT! Professionally, and in academic setting yes, but not in romantic relationships. Relationships between women and men are not intrinsically fair. Women have carry and birth the babies. Women are dogged for being whores. Women carry the brunt of child-rearing. Women are not as physically strong as men. This set up means to me, that they are supposed to be taking care of us because we are more vulnerable. How in the world did we end up taking care of them?

Some women seem to lack the information needed to sift through the trifling men. How is it that you can be in the company of these men and not figure out who they are? What questions are you asking them about themselves? What aren't you believing what you're seeing?

So upsetting.

 

[Theo]

They're just being lazy. They do it cuz they can. And they're not necessarily "trifling" either... these are the same people who will marry your girlfriend a couple years down the line and she'll be gushing about how she found a good one.

 

[LoveisYou]

If a man approaches you to hang out let him know you are not interested in hanging out. If he doesn't change his approach KIM, simple.

 

[Flawless_JYM]

Maybe it's me but what is wrong about hanging out if your doing the same things as you would on a date? Sometimes I feel both sexes overthink things when it cones to relationships.

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

Women have also bought into the thinking that everything between the sexes should be equal in relationships. NOT! Professionally, and in academic setting yes, but not in romantic relationships. Relationships between women and men are not intrinsically fair. Women have carry and birth the babies. Women are dogged for being whores. Women carry the brunt of child-rearing. Women are not as physically strong as men. This set up means to me, that they are supposed to be taking care of us because we are more vulnerable. How in the world did we end up taking care of them?

A-freaking-men, especially to the bolded. The greatest gift a woman can give a man is carry his child and unconsciously, men know that. But that means they have to STEP UP!!! But women are just as much to blame for this situation as men allowing men to pull this ish to the point where men feel they shouldn't have to do anything.