belletropjolie
New Member
I'll try to keep this short and sweet - cos boy can I ramble.
So I met a guy while standing in line at Whole foods this wknd. His not really my type but kind of cute. I could tell he was checking me out (sneaking glances backwards lol) so I just said Hey where do you go running since he was in work out clothes.
We got to talking and we had common interests e.g. I also go running and play tennis. He gave me his card and said text me sometime. So I texted him the next evening.
He texted back saying "we should do something this week. You prefer sports right?". I had to go out of town for a couple days so he said "let's coordinate when you get back".
So Question:
- uhmmm I really don't want to do anything sporty on a first date so how do I steer the conversation away from that? I hate being the one to plan a date so do I just throw out hints??
- also should I text before I get back or is it too much?
- do I just text back "hey I'm back in town" and hope he suggests a date I like?.
I'm actually pretty proud of myself because I've never been one to approach a guy- I would just wait for him to start conversation. So yea I learned you don't have to be super thirsty but just reach out enough to give the guy an opening.
Appreciate your thoughts!
So I met a guy while standing in line at Whole foods this wknd. His not really my type but kind of cute. I could tell he was checking me out (sneaking glances backwards lol) so I just said Hey where do you go running since he was in work out clothes.
We got to talking and we had common interests e.g. I also go running and play tennis. He gave me his card and said text me sometime. So I texted him the next evening.
He texted back saying "we should do something this week. You prefer sports right?". I had to go out of town for a couple days so he said "let's coordinate when you get back".
So Question:
- uhmmm I really don't want to do anything sporty on a first date so how do I steer the conversation away from that? I hate being the one to plan a date so do I just throw out hints??
- also should I text before I get back or is it too much?
- do I just text back "hey I'm back in town" and hope he suggests a date I like?.
I'm actually pretty proud of myself because I've never been one to approach a guy- I would just wait for him to start conversation. So yea I learned you don't have to be super thirsty but just reach out enough to give the guy an opening.
Appreciate your thoughts!