Lady Esquire
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What would you do if a 19 year old neice, newly married, with a 4 week old infant asked to stay with you?
ETA: The husband no longer wants to be married, and is tossing her and her baby out.
She turned down her mother's offer because they butt heads.
She turned down another aunt's offer (who has no kids, 5 bedrooms, and offered to pay for a day nurse for the baby) because they butt heads.
She is insisting that my house is where she would prefer to stay, in peace, while she gets herself together. I have no problems with it, but I have some reservations. I am leaving out a lot of details, but I smell drama a mile away. The last time I let a family member stay over, we got screwed financially and emotionally.
ETA: The husband no longer wants to be married, and is tossing her and her baby out.
She turned down her mother's offer because they butt heads.
She turned down another aunt's offer (who has no kids, 5 bedrooms, and offered to pay for a day nurse for the baby) because they butt heads.
She is insisting that my house is where she would prefer to stay, in peace, while she gets herself together. I have no problems with it, but I have some reservations. I am leaving out a lot of details, but I smell drama a mile away. The last time I let a family member stay over, we got screwed financially and emotionally.
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