TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
So I've been seeing a new guy for a few weeks. Actually, it's someone that I've known through mutual friends for many years. We ran into each other... blah, blah, blah.
One of our mutual friends called to invite me to a housewarming, and I asked her if I could bring someone. Initially, she said yes, but when I told her who I was seeing, she asked me not to bring him because she was inviting two of his ex's to the event.
I am fully aware of his dating past with both these women, and he is aware of men that I dated within the same circle, and while I can understand why our friend wouldn't want any "potential drama" as she so eloquently put it if I walked into her housewarming with him, I can't say that I appreciate being UN invited because of it.
Needless to say, after that I determined that I wasn't going to go.
I am wondering, however, if I should mention this to him.
It's amazing how small the world is, and I would venture to say that we will eventually run into an ex at some point. I'm certainly not going to hide our relationship to make someone else comfortable...
Not sure if I should tell him or not...
One of our mutual friends called to invite me to a housewarming, and I asked her if I could bring someone. Initially, she said yes, but when I told her who I was seeing, she asked me not to bring him because she was inviting two of his ex's to the event.
I am fully aware of his dating past with both these women, and he is aware of men that I dated within the same circle, and while I can understand why our friend wouldn't want any "potential drama" as she so eloquently put it if I walked into her housewarming with him, I can't say that I appreciate being UN invited because of it.
Needless to say, after that I determined that I wasn't going to go.
I am wondering, however, if I should mention this to him.
It's amazing how small the world is, and I would venture to say that we will eventually run into an ex at some point. I'm certainly not going to hide our relationship to make someone else comfortable...
Not sure if I should tell him or not...