blackpearl81
Well-Known Member
Oh yes, I wanted to slap some sense into that girl's head. Tyra shoulda solicited LHCF members if she wanted to have a descent convo about hair...
Hyperbole. Look it up.
See, they would never say that, because they don't air their mess like we do. Even if they're thinking it.
Thanks, Tyra.
I asked my caucasian coworker what is "white girl flow". She said it's different for every girl but hers is the 12th of every month.
When focusing on hair issues the producers of Tyra's show will review this and similar sites (probably) so they know whether particular issues will be controversial. After all controversial topics often mean more ratings and more ratings mean higher revenue to the TV channels. Those people know what they're doing...
Oh yes, I wanted to slap some sense into that girl's head. Tyra shoulda solicited LHCF members if she wanted to have a descent convo about hair...
That's basically what the Tyra issue boils down to. She finds, and she doesn't have to look far, guests that will put a voice to our community's most dirty little secrets. They shake us out of our denial. These voices are uncensored like the ego. They are not filtered for the masses. Unfortunately she never presents a strong enough rebuttal to these statements. A rebuttal that could educate the masses and diffuse the sting of those ego voices.
The One lady she had representing natural hair was from Nappturality, but many of her comments were edited/ cut for the final showing. I would have liked to see her have several natural ladies representing different styles- loose and locked.
agreed. I would be more apt to think Tyra is not 'making a statement" like
"see - I am ok with my hair"
NOT!!!! she is NOT!!!! And - people have followed this trend. I am not down on it - I am saying that she - beyonce and others have contributed to this sense that we MUST look a certain way. We MUST wear hair in a certain form.... yada yada......
She wears wigs DAILY on that show.
Ridiculous....
Homegirl committed a cardinal sin.
Imagine a show about plastic surgery. The host asks why these women put themselves through such pain and expense, and the ww says, "We white women just want that black lady youth! You know how you see a bw and she's 50, but she looks 25? That's what we want!"
See, they would never say that, because they don't air their mess like we do. Even if they're thinking it.
Thanks, Tyra.
Yeah seriousy. Ditto on your whole post.
She simply said what a lot of us really mean. Hey, own it.
I should also edit my post to clarify that I mean relaxed/straightened BW when I said we generally used heavier/oilier products. This has been a fact for generations. We all remember going to school and the white girls had the floppy pony tails where as we and/or our friends were the little melinated girls with the shiny (relaxed or pressed) ponytails that jutted straight out. You know the hair that was soft, but what direction you put it in is where it would stay. Folks know ful and well what these terms imply*looks out window to confirm I'm not misremembering*
homegirl got the whole world thinkin we hate everthing about being blk--*** tyra--ugh
and WGF does not mean swanging hair to me---maybe to tyra and the idiot guest she had but wgf means nothing to me--wtf is that--is it a coined term
chinese ppl hair flow--mexcian ppl hair flow--
having hair that swangs or has movement has nothing to do with white women--who the *** coined that--lmaooo
Good lord. Does everything have to be a FIGHT around here????
Yes and I love it!
I think the modeling industry did a number Tyra's self esteem. I really hate the topics that she uses on her show concerning black women but I also feel sorry for her. It must be torment to live with such self hatred.
I love this site!Yes and I love it!
You are a bad girl CurlyMoo Can I have a piece of chocolate though
That comment didnt even bother me either. As much as we've heard this term around this board and do whatever it takes to have that "swang".
Telling each other on here not to put too much oil and product in your hair so that it doesnt look weighed down and will SWANG.
We suddenly acting like that was not our objective after joining this board.
The swang you are all talking about is a nightmare for me. I always have to pin my hair up whenever I eat, otherwise, I have soup, sauce, puree all over my head. You see the pictureerplexed For those who dont have it, let me tell you it aint worth it
Tyra is such an idiot. The panel were idiots too. I sure wish there were some members on this board on their educating them on the real, true beauty of black hair whether it's relaxed/natural.
Yeah. That and when somebody does a weave check on your head they're hating and you should do the white girl hair flip in their face. Don't act like y'all never saw that posted here. I've never heard the exact phrase "white girl glow" but I've heard why girl hair flip, toss, etc. It just came out her mouth wrong that's why people were confused.
To the point Sleek made about the ponytails sticking out - I totally agree. Even Oprah has alluded to that. And on many boards (Especially NP) I have seen people talk about when they were a child how they ran around the house with a white towel on their head swinging it pretending they had hair like white girls. Y'all act like you've been enlightened and following this boards practices your whole lives. Most of us didn't do any better and sought out this board to learn how to do better and correct our damaged hair (damaged could mean we never had any hair our whole life or we had hair that took a hit and we were trying to restore it). Some people on this board weren't and still aren't any different than some of those chicks on that show.
ETA: And if y'all really want to get technical, swang or flow is not characteristic of type 4 or maybe even some type 3's naturally. You have to manipulate the hair to do it. So why get up in arms and say why it gotta be white girl swang or like a white girl. Have you ever seen an afro swing? NAPS DON'T SWING. That is something that is characteristic of other "types" of hair that we cannot not acheive naturally.