monie20032007
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Ok I'm going to try to keep this as short as possible. So basically my boyfriend was trying to date this one girl, we'll call her "Mary", before he asked me out, but she turned them down. After me and him got together he would tell me how he didn't talk to her because he had a grudge against her for turning him down. One day he pulled up his facebook to show me something and I saw that they had been chatting and confronted him about it. He ended up saying that they had become friends again and they were just having friendly conversation. Would it be reasonable for me to ask him to stop talking to her? I mean I know that he's going to do what he wants anyway, so there is prob not a point in asking him to do that. I just don't know what exactly to ask from him.
ETA: I'm afraid that if I ask him to stop talking to her, he would still do it but just try to hide it from me. I just cant be in a relationship with constant wondering if he is secretly talking to her. He is secretive anyway so that bothers me even more. And plus, if I wouldn't have seen that on facebook he was never going to tell me about this.
ETA: I'm afraid that if I ask him to stop talking to her, he would still do it but just try to hide it from me. I just cant be in a relationship with constant wondering if he is secretly talking to her. He is secretive anyway so that bothers me even more. And plus, if I wouldn't have seen that on facebook he was never going to tell me about this.
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