I feel you. Men can be so lazy and self-entitled. smh lol I don't know who these women are that enabled this laziness mindset where they dont have to make an effort. But that ish doesnt work for me.
Male laziness doesnt really bother me tho bc I have this character trait that makes me a lot of work by default: I'm extremely self-centered. (not to be confused with self-absorbed.) I'm also an introvert. This means that not only is my time precious, I only like to do what I want to do. So the only way for ANYONE to get me to do anything, from talking on the phone to spending time in any form, is to make it worth my time. gotta convince me to GAF.
Other than that, we wont be talking at all and you wont be seeing me because I have no reason to entertain/engage. Unless it's my mama, SO I'm in a relationship or a loved one's life crisis, seeing me or talking to me AT ALL demands the other person get creative or play mind reader. I expect people to make my life easier, not harder. If I wanted to plan a date or use my ideas, I'd take my damn self.
figure it out. they move slow but men that are really interested
EVENTUALLY catch on. if not, oh well. be lazy, i'll just ignore you. i dont save numbers and probably already forgot your name. saves me the hassle of taking time away from myself.
<---plus I hate dating and being in a relationship, even tho I seem to always be in one.
I would have politely told the dude in the OP what I tell everyone: I dont call men, but feel free to call if you have a date for us