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I've found this very common with the wealthier, busier men I have dated in the past. One guy told me he was ready for some time off and told me to pick the destination, time, set the flight reservations and send to him for payment. On the one hand, I liked that I got to pick what I wanted, on the other hand, I thought it was a little lazy on his part and he was treating me like a secretary
Another guy told me something similar, pick the restaurant, date, and time, and he would fly out. Both guys work very hard, like 24/7, and are very successful.
Not sure if this is what is going on with your date but I do think workaholics can be like this.
It's up to us to make them step up though and stop letting them get away with not courting us properly. (men who get lazy after they snag you is a whole different story though LOL) Other than that, we wont be talking at all and you wont be seeing me because I have no reason to entertain/engage. Unless it's my mama, SO I'm in a relationship or a loved one's life crisis, seeing me or talking to me AT ALL demands the other person get creative or play mind reader. I expect people to make my life easier, not harder. If I wanted to plan a date or use my ideas, I'd take my damn self. 
<---plus I hate dating and being in a relationship, even tho I seem to always be in one. 
I've found this very common with the wealthier, busier men I have dated in the past. One guy told me he was ready for some time off and told me to pick the destination, time, set the flight reservations and send to him for payment. On the one hand, I liked that I got to pick what I wanted, on the other hand, I thought it was a little lazy on his part and he was treating me like a secretary
Another guy told me something similar, pick the restaurant, date, and time, and he would fly out. Both guys work very hard, like 24/7, and are very successful.
Not sure if this is what is going on with your date but I do think workaholics can be like this.
I feel you. Men can be so lazy and self-entitled. smh lol I don't know who these women are that enabled this laziness mindset where they dont have to make an effort. But that ish doesnt work for me.
Male laziness doesnt really bother me tho bc I have this character trait that makes me a lot of work by default: I'm extremely self-centered. (not to be confused with self-absorbed.) I'm also an introvert. This means that not only is my time precious, I only like to do what I want to do. So the only way for ANYONE to get me to do anything, from talking on the phone to spending time in any form, is to make it worth my time. gotta convince me to GAF.
figure it out. they move slow but men that are really interested EVENTUALLY catch on. if not, oh well. be lazy, i'll just ignore you. i dont save numbers and probably already forgot your name. saves me the hassle of taking time away from myself.
I would have politely told the dude in the OP what I tell everyone: I dont call men, but feel free to call if you have a date for us
so true
