definitely to the curb! But don't blame the whiteness XD My SO and his family (who are all somewhere between cheesecake and wonderbread) love my fro but care far more about a beautiful personality. I did do most of my dating wearing natural styles just so any potential suitors knew what they were in for but honestly it barely phased most guys; white, black or otherwise. So wear those beautiful curls
But my SO doesn't like anything that makes me look really young (As I already have a around face and chubby cheeks). So pigtails etc. He also gets a little weird out when I have curlformers in but likes the results