What Does Your SO/DH Prefer..

[Curlybeauty]

Not sure if this thread will last long, but how do your SO and DH's respond to body hair? I'm under the impression that most men expect their woman of choice to be as smooth as their favorite adult film star..I don't mind cleaning up the edges, but I mean really..all of it though? yeeeouch!!!

I'm too lazy to maintain that outside of summer fun..hope this isn't TMI

 

[FlowerHair]

It differs from man to man, but my ex loved body hair - all of it

Most men seem to want shaven legs, armpits and at least trimmed bikini area though...

 

[Lucie]

Most of the men I know don't care about body hair as long as the woman doesn't look like Robin Williams without a shirt on. As long as the "edges" are clean, I think most are happy. I used to shave every day, now I do once a week. I ain't got time for all of that, LOL. DH, could care less.

 

[Curlybeauty]

At work LMBO..!

 

[Curlybeauty]

Most of the men I know don't care about body hair as long as the woman doesn't look like Robin Williams without a shirt on. As long as the "edges" are clean, I think most are happy. I used to shave every day, now I do once a week. I ain't got time for all of that, LOL. DH, could care less.

And yeah I definately agree..I feel like cleaning up the edges is just appropriate and respectful for the ones that cater to the needs of that region

 

[lux10023]

ima hairy sistah--so i try and maintain it for my personal pref--
fh prefers trimmed and neat---i prefer no hair on my arms-legs
nice lil runway on the lower region

over the yrs i did meet men who were into a hairy women fetish--lolol

 

[Curlybeauty]

ima hairy sistah--so i try and maintain it for my personal pref--
fh prefers trimmed and neat---i prefer no hair on my arms-legs
nice lil runway on the lower region

over the yrs i did meet men who were into a hairy women fetish--lolol

yeah i see that a lot of women like the runway..me..eh..my skin is waaaay to sensitive for that! It would act a fool!

&& LOL at the fetish thing!!

 

[Britt]

He prefers no hair or low hair down there... but overall, I don't think he really cares... he's more concerned about me smelling good all the time.

 

[Curlybeauty]

^^Brittster- yeah i can handle a good trim, and when involved with any man..hell even myself! my natural smell will never be compromised! I love to smell good!! Every guy asks me what perfume i'm wearing..love that!

 

[JustKiya]

DH just doesn't want to eat hair. I oblige. If he ain't putting his mouth on it, he doesn't really care. I don't even think he NOTICES when I shave my legs until the stubble starts coming in - then he notices because they feel rough.

 

[snillohsss]

I never asked him. I maintain body hair based on my preferences, and I am smooth as a babies bottom!

 

[Son26]

My ex didn't care if I shaved it or kept it hairy.

 

[LoveLiLi]

I always shave my legs and shave or wax my underarms. I don't care about the hair on my arms since it's not very noticeable.

As for below the equator, I've never had a man ask me to change anything about it - even when I was deep in my feminist phase and refused to trim anything but the very outer edge. I think they're just happy they're with you.

For the past six years or so I keep the area waxed, and I can tell that it's preferred, even though it isn't verbally expressed. The facial expressions and actions that follow let me know bare is the way to go.

 

[dlewis]

I really don't think most men care.

 

[LBoogie]

I personally don't like having body hair so I stay smooth. The few times I've been in-between, or just lazy and had some growth, he never said anything,

 

[Tamrin]

Runway or Hair free. He does it. I told him it is now his responsibility. All I do is buy the supplies.

 

[Lenee925]

Men care, they just don't say anything. My man tells me often he's so glad I'm not hairy as he touches my arms or legs. He prefers it 'clean' down there. Not bald but at least trimmed. I have always liked being bald personally..

 

[LightEyedMami]

My hubby doesn't mind my hair, I have "All blond" body hair so, i have no need to shave my legs, arms ETC. (because you can't see them) my hairs are also very soft, so my legs feel (and look) smooth you have to be up REALLY close to tell. I just shave my armpits and "trim up" my Va jay jay every so often

 

[LightEyedMami]

Men care, they just don't say anything. My man tells me often he's so glad I'm not hairy as he touches my arms or legs. He prefers it 'clean' down there. Not bald but at least trimmed. I have always liked being bald personally..

SOME men care. believe me my husband has never been SHY with his words to me and he doesn't mind at all!.. BUT like i said i have "blond hair" all over my body so it is not noticable and since i have never shaved my legs or arms they are smooth (my mom says my hair looks like "peach fuzz"), Hair doesn't become "prick-ly" or uncomfortable until you shave then the "new" hair that comes in is "prick-ly"

 

[Curlybeauty]

Runway or Hair free. He does it. I told him it is now his responsibility. All I do is buy the supplies.

I'm so feeling that method..if you want it gone then hey..do it yourself! But I think i'm all about doing it upon request..if we have even made it to that phase then sure I can muster up the strength to clean up shop. Never bald..but a good trim and clean edges..the least I could do

But I was blessed with gorgeous skin everywhere but the lower region so it is what it is..glad you ladies are being open about this...somedays i feel like i'm the only one that doesn't wax,shave,or laser ALL the hair off of me!

 

[Junebug D]

I don't think they care half as much as we think they do. It's never stopped anyone from coming near me. Approximately half of the men I've been with actually asked me NOT to shave my legs... and I keep those shaved. They say it's sexy, as long as you don't look like a wildebeast. They watch porn and think that porn star hairless look is best, but at the end of the day they don't even care.

The one who did open his mouth to suggest otherwise was... immature, for lack of a nicer word. And it still didn't stop him from coming near me.

 

[skegeesmb]

Mine doesn't really care. I wax though and he's cool with that, but before I was real lazy with upkeep. He always tells me: "Baby look at all the hair I have, if you looked like me maybe I might care, but that's never going to happen".