deltadreamland
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This is a conversation I had with some of my yt female friends on another rmessage board.
Background: SO and I are in Biloxi for the weekend and I almost didn't go because he decided to tell me at the last minute that a male friend of his was coming with us. Long story short, I was mad with him for not talking to me before inviting his friend since this trip was planned for us a month in advance.
My conversation with my yt friends:
Me: (in response to what are you doing this weekend topic)
Me:
Yt friend #2 chimes in:
Me again:
So what do you ladies think? Were my yt friends correct? Was I too hard on him? The weekend actually turned out to be wonderful and we got a lot of "US" time in, even with his friend in tow. I think he sensed that I was perturbed and did an awesome job of correcting the "error" of his ways.
Background: SO and I are in Biloxi for the weekend and I almost didn't go because he decided to tell me at the last minute that a male friend of his was coming with us. Long story short, I was mad with him for not talking to me before inviting his friend since this trip was planned for us a month in advance.
My conversation with my yt friends:
Me: (in response to what are you doing this weekend topic)
Yt friend #1:Need to pack and get ready for my trip, but now I'm pissed about something and my enthusiasm is gone. I don't want to go.
? (she's really nosey)Oh no Carla... what did he do
Me:
Yt friend:He invited one of his poker buddies without talking with me first. Someone please be honest and tell me if I'm overreacting about him not having enough respect to talk to me first.And I don't even know this guy.I need for someone to explain his side to me because right now I'm not seeing it.
So, I'm thinking whatever there is no excuse for this.Yup, Carla, that's just wrong. So, he and his friend can sit and play poker all weekend, what are you supposed to do? He probably didn't mean any harm by it or whatever, since men are so dense when it comes to this stuff, but still, I'd be mad. Don't be too hard on him.
Yt friend #2 chimes in:
Me:You go girl! But, you know, men are dumb, so, he is totally not going to 'get' why you're mad.. Don't be too hard on him.
Yep I'm mad. I'm going to go just to show him how mad I am too. I was going to buy dinner one night since he's paying for everything, now I'm not buying JACK! He'll pay for everything AND I'm gonna play like I'm asleep every time he gets in the bed. I have no goodies for him on this trip! He forfeited all of that when he unknowingly towards me invited his friend.
ETA: I'll deal with the rest of the fallout when we get back to Atlanta Sunday. Needless to say, he is SO not my 2nd favorite guy right now, if anymore, after this.
Me again:
You're absolutely right, Mel. Most of them are dumb and he is definitely not an exception. That's why I have to make him FEEL it in his wallet (he can afford it) and inside his underwear.
So what do you ladies think? Were my yt friends correct? Was I too hard on him? The weekend actually turned out to be wonderful and we got a lot of "US" time in, even with his friend in tow. I think he sensed that I was perturbed and did an awesome job of correcting the "error" of his ways.