greenmetro99
Well-Known Member
Ladies, I think I’m giving up on dating. I’m frustrated. I’ve never been married and no kids at 37. I go long hiatus without dating or sex. I don’t sleep around. I'm a educated professional. Why cant I find a man that wants me?
I met a guy 4 months ago, and I really liked him. He took me on so many dates (over 20!) , texted all day long, and called every day. But all of a sudden he has turned cold. He told me that he has become very busy and needs so time to himself to recharge…. He still texts daily and calls most days, but now he is breaking plans now. He is the one initiating theses plans, and breaking them. I don’t complain or nag at him ever. I have not been clingy. I don’t understand why he is pushing away.
Anyway, I’m just tired ladies. I date 1 or 2 guys a year. When things don’t work then it hurts and I have to heal all over again. I’m not sure if I can start this dating process again and again and again… at the age of 37. Same results every time. Him and I were not committed yet, but it still hurts. Give me some advice. How do you ladies bounce back quickly from heart break? Does anyone ever feel like quitting? Im starting to think something is wrong with me for real.
Thanks for reading my vent. I just needed to get that out.
I met a guy 4 months ago, and I really liked him. He took me on so many dates (over 20!) , texted all day long, and called every day. But all of a sudden he has turned cold. He told me that he has become very busy and needs so time to himself to recharge…. He still texts daily and calls most days, but now he is breaking plans now. He is the one initiating theses plans, and breaking them. I don’t complain or nag at him ever. I have not been clingy. I don’t understand why he is pushing away.
Anyway, I’m just tired ladies. I date 1 or 2 guys a year. When things don’t work then it hurts and I have to heal all over again. I’m not sure if I can start this dating process again and again and again… at the age of 37. Same results every time. Him and I were not committed yet, but it still hurts. Give me some advice. How do you ladies bounce back quickly from heart break? Does anyone ever feel like quitting? Im starting to think something is wrong with me for real.
Thanks for reading my vent. I just needed to get that out.