gone_fishing
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One of my little cousins is not so little anymore. Anyway she's about to start her first year in college and she went clothes shopping...much to her mother's dismay she is none to happy with this hoochie collection that her daughter plans to go to college with.
So I've been trying to talk to her.
She doesn't get it though.
She wants to know why the guys give all their attention to the girls who dress more provocatively. I tried to explain to her that she should not be jealous of the girls who dress that way because she is not getting the type of attention she really wants. I tried to explain to her that just because a guy shows interest in your physique doesn't mean he's interested in your brain or the goings on of your heart.
I told her that whenever she sees a woman being drooled over because of how short her skirt is just know in her mind that the guy is really after her assets and not after a relationship and those are entirely two different things.
I think I'm going to have to give her refresher courses pretty frequently to keep her down to earth but I hope I have at least helped her see the difference between a guy who truly likes you and a guy who just wants to poke you for fun.
As a teenager were you ever confused about the difference between the two things and if so, at what age did you realize how things work.
So I've been trying to talk to her.
She doesn't get it though.
She wants to know why the guys give all their attention to the girls who dress more provocatively. I tried to explain to her that she should not be jealous of the girls who dress that way because she is not getting the type of attention she really wants. I tried to explain to her that just because a guy shows interest in your physique doesn't mean he's interested in your brain or the goings on of your heart.
I told her that whenever she sees a woman being drooled over because of how short her skirt is just know in her mind that the guy is really after her assets and not after a relationship and those are entirely two different things.
I think I'm going to have to give her refresher courses pretty frequently to keep her down to earth but I hope I have at least helped her see the difference between a guy who truly likes you and a guy who just wants to poke you for fun.
As a teenager were you ever confused about the difference between the two things and if so, at what age did you realize how things work.
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